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ESZeb

21 / M / gay / Single

Waltham, Massachusetts

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 1" (1.85m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Japanese (Okay)

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I am determined, relaxed, and quietly enthusiastic.

My Self-Summary

I grew up in Texas, and promptly got the hell out of there for college.

My experiences at Brandeis University have been wonderful, and I look forward to the future. My main motivation is helping people, and I can see that manifesting in either my becoming a therapist, lawyer, or social worker.

Having a creative outlet is important to me. I love knitting, painting, and writing. I'd love to be able to devote my life to writing or painting, but I understand that if I make a decent living for myself through law or counseling, I'll be able to give my creative endeavors the time they deserve.

I thoroughly enjoy video games, specifically RPGs. I love long conversations about the Final Fantasy series. I discovered Ballroom dancing in college, and it serves as delightful and fun stress relief. That said, I am a fairly relaxed person, and I happily lead a life with little drama and great fun.

I'm interested in meeting guys who go beyond the stereotype that we are all little more than frivolous whores who don't ever really find love. I appreciate guys who are their own men, but want to find someone to spend their lives with.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm a Psychology Undergrad at Brandeis University, outside Boston. If I could, I'd create a major in Dabbling, because I want to study far more things than I can fit in my schedule.

After I graduate, I want either to pursue a Master's in Psychology or Social Work, or attend law school.

I have a wonderful circle of friends whom I cherish dearly. My life is fueled by a sense of compassion and responsibility for those around me.

I’m really good at

Teaching and informing.
The art of conversation.
Learning a person's traits.
Observation.
Ballroom and Latin dance.

The first things people usually notice about me

My red hair.

The six things I could never do without

Friends
My laptop (and accompanying internet)
Paints
Good novels
Good games
Good food

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Stories I want to write.
The future.
How to spend the weekend.

On a typical Friday night I am

If in Texas, relaxing at home.
If at college, venturing into Boston with friends and doing something embarrassingly innocent. Mini golf, anyone?

You should message me if

You feel so inclined. I enjoy talking to people.