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50 Austin, TX Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 38–52
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 23
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Open relationship
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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If "Traditional" is the way you like your relationships then you can save some time and move to the next profile. If you are tired of serial monogamy, worried you don't have time for a relationship, or just want to have a good time without worrying about the hard stuff, keep reading. You may be in luck. I'm looking for a unique, independent and open minded woman to join me for occasional fun, nights on the town, romantic dinners, dancing, etc. Strings or no strings? Either is fine with me, though I prefer to have an ongoing relationship. I'm in an open relationship so this is a non-monogamous offer only. If you are game then you stand to gain a possible relationship with a nice, funny, "adorable", safe and sexy native Texan. Here's a little more about me. Hope to hear from you ;)

I look like my pictures. They are current.

Physically Fit - I'm an athlete and frequently compete. I'm just good enough to keep trying. I often hear, "You're good for your age..."

Politically: I lean left. We don't have to share political beliefs, you just can't be a bitch about it.

Financially: I'm a successful professional. I'll pick up dinner, but not your car payment.

MBTI Type: ENTP (Occasionally I ponder whether I'm an ENFP. Those are sleepless nights)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Learning... every day. Recently started learning to dance, for real!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Providing a plausible explanation for anything
Making predictions
Perusing a lot of different data
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That my clothes fit...well.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: The Godfather, Fight Club, Snatch, Kill Bill 1 &2, Most quality Sci-Fi and Action movies. I like smart movies (Like "Groundhog Day"!), but not slow movies. Memento was good. I like documentaries, especially about important historical events. Favorite Romantic Comedies: "Groundhog Day", "Moonstruck". Action movies - If they use the line, "Destroy at all cost" or "Coming in hot", I'm in.

Books: Neal Stephenson is the most consistent authors I've read and enjoyed ("Anathem" is my favorite Neal Stephenson book). I like Garcia Marquez. "Love in the Time of Cholera" is better than "A Hundred Years of Solitude" in my opinion. I enjoy Non-fiction as much as fiction. Bill Bryson is good.

Philosophy: If you like Joseph Campbell's explanations of life, that's a good sign of compatibility.

TV - "Parks and Recreation", is the latest comedy that I've binge watched. Really love that show. I like 30 Rock, Archer, Modern Family... I typically catch stuff on Netflix. I'm a big fan of Peaky Blinders, Lillyhammer and Marco Polo.

Music - Music is important to me, but not necessarily "live music". I seek out music that aligns to my mood. The range is from dance/dj, electronica, big beat, house to alternative and classic rock (If it's a good workout tune then it's in my playlist). I don't like modern or "Pop" country. Opera is my least favorite type of music.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A pool
My workout playlist
Morning Coffee

(Just missed the list: Band Aids, Foam roller)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether "Short Term Dating" is interpreted the same way by both genders...

Where I'm going on my next trip - Just got back from London and Dubai.

Relationships - At mid-life, it seems like the paradigm should shift. Is exclusivity/monogamy right for everyone after 40?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
More than half the time Friday nights are low key. I like good company, good food and good wine. I get up early on Saturdays to get my workout out of the way.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like fake Maple syrup better than real Maple syrup...

I can sing some Linda Ronstadt songs as good or better than Linda Ronstadt. I have witnesses!

I have a table that is almost always cluttered with stuff in limbo. The whole house could be clean but the table remains cluttered. Exceptions include parties and Holidays...
You should message me if
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You think we could have fun together. If you message me I assume that you understand that I'm not available for an exclusive relationship. I understand that OKC mobile's "Tinder-like" swipe feature my cause some Likes being thrown my way without you reading my profile. Nonetheless, if I'm following up on a Like, I assume you read my details. Finally, I'm not into cheating. If you are in a relationship your other must be aligned with your intent. Mine does and will verify if needed.

You have a very good chance of my response if you are more attractive than average, fit or at least HWP. Also, your profile should show signs of intelligence, not being hyper-religious and not a strong right-winger.

I am more interested in the age of your soul than your chronological age. I am picky about body type though.