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Eamonn_C_Pateme

43 New York, NY Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Leo
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Esperanto (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Grew up in Brooklyn when a select few had the high spirits to get out. I left and saw the world. Still represent but got my eyes on Berlin.

More recently, put the personal life on hold for a few years to save someone else's business so they would predecease their life's work. That act of unconditional love proved to be a transformative experience. For my next act, I will be bottling up that love and spreading it around. As Biggie Smalls said "Spread love, it's the Brooklyn way."

I believe in attraction. I am attracted to intelligent, good-hearted, self aware people who see the "cool" in "old school" values.

Last but not least, I look young thanks to my Irish/English/Swedish heritage and penchant for laughter.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I run a boutique institutional investment management firm.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Taking responsibility for my own heart--my own life--and I look forward to meeting someone who can do the same. I strongly believe we create our own happiness.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Friends say I smile a lot and have an open heart.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Eschew cable tv so I read whatever piques my interest at the library or by burrowing through the internet while fine tuning search results.

Favorite movie: Whatever Works by Woody Allen. (This is not my favorite movie but this is a dating site. I prefer Mel Brooks to Woody but Aronofsky to them all.)

Theatre: I lived in London for 3 years and once caught an esoteric off West End show called Matilda and His Main Man Matty. Just brilliant.

Poetry: There is a beautiful quote about the human heart by Charlotte Bronte which I memorized because it moved me.

Music : It ranges from Keith Jarrett's The Koln Concert to anything the Beastie Boys sampled.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
First and foremost, developing a relationship to the point where my partner's heart lifts every time she hears my key in the door.

Trust
Humor
Empathy
Pursuing life goals
The feeling of being whole and at peace.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
When it comes to vocabulary, size matters.

Emotional intelligence is massively underrated.

Running a honest business and giving full measure to clients.

That a successful relationship has a transcendent core.

Perhaps one day renovating a summer home. This simple yet tasteful renovation was profiled in the NY Times. In my opinion, the only thing missing is a lake and a garden.

http://www.nytimes.com/slideshow/2013/09/26/greathomesanddestinations/20130926-LOCATION.html?_r=0#16

Sorry, you will have to cut and paste as links don't work on this site.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It's a moving target these days.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Truly loving someone is a selfless act.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Something here resonates with you.

You have a good heart and are not afraid to show it.

You think we would be good for each other.