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43 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Native New Yorker who at the age of 40 put his personal life on hold to tend to a family member's ailing health and to save a family business. Both situations are now resolved.

The right life partner for me is an interesting, intelligent and conscientious woman who can handle life's challenges while still finding a reason to laugh and maintain the courage to pursue what she wants in life. Said differently, I am looking for my female counterpart.

And yes, I look young thanks to my Irish/English/Swedish heritage and penchant for humor and laughter.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I run a boutique institutional investment management firm.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Taking responsibility for my own heart--my own life--and I look forward to meeting someone who can do the same.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Friends say I smile a lot and have an open heart.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I don't have cable tv so I don't watch tv shows.

Favorite movie: Whatever Works by Woody Allen. (This is not my favorite movie but this is a dating site. I prefer Mel Brooks to Woody.)

Theatre: I lived in London for 3 years and once caught an esoteric off West End show called Matilda and His Main Man Matty which was brilliant.

Poetry: There is a beautiful quote about the human heart by Charlotte Bronte which I memorized because it moved me.

Music : It ranges from Keith Jarrett's The Koln Concert to anything the Beastie Boys sampled.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
First and foremost, developing a relationship to the point where my partner's heart lifts every time she hears my key in the door.

Human touch
An intelligent aesthetic
The feeling of being whole and at peace.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
When it comes to vocabulary, size matters.

How The Beatles were right:"All You Need Is Love"

Running a honest business and giving full measure to clients.

That a successful relationship has a transcendent core.

Perhaps one day renovating a summer home. This simple yet tasteful renovation was profiled in the NY Times. In my opinion, the only thing missing is a lake and a garden.

Sorry, you will have to cut and paste as links don't work on this site.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It's a moving target these days.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When it comes to falling in love I have never faked it and don't plan on doing so now and that truly loving someone is a selfless act.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Something here resonates with you and/or you describe yourself as a loyal/nurturing woman in your profile.

If you think we would be good for each other.

If you do message me just know I would prefer to talk on the phone before meeting.