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43 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Banking / Finance
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Esperanto (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Grew up in Brooklyn when a select few had the high spirits to get out. I left and saw the world. Still represent but got my eyes on Berlin.

More recently, put the personal life on hold for a few years to save someone else's business so they would predecease their life's work. That act of unconditional love proved to be a transformative experience. For my next act, I will be bottling up that love and spreading it around. As Biggie Smalls said "Spread love, it's the Brooklyn way."

I believe in attraction. I am attracted to intelligent, good-hearted, self aware people who see the "cool" in "old school" values.

Last but not least, I look young thanks to my Irish/English/Swedish heritage and penchant for laughter.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I run a boutique institutional investment management firm.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Taking responsibility for my own heart--my own life--and I look forward to meeting someone who can do the same. I strongly believe we create our own happiness.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Friends say I smile a lot and have an open heart.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Eschew cable tv so I read whatever piques my interest at the library or by burrowing through the internet while fine tuning search results.

Favorite movie: Whatever Works by Woody Allen. (This is not my favorite movie but this is a dating site. I prefer Mel Brooks to Woody but Aronofsky to them all.)

Theatre: I lived in London for 3 years and once caught an esoteric off West End show called Matilda and His Main Man Matty. Just brilliant.

Poetry: There is a beautiful quote about the human heart by Charlotte Bronte which I memorized because it moved me.

Music : It ranges from Keith Jarrett's The Koln Concert to anything the Beastie Boys sampled.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
First and foremost, developing a relationship to the point where my partner's heart lifts every time she hears my key in the door.

Pursuing life goals
The feeling of being whole and at peace.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
When it comes to vocabulary, size matters.

Emotional intelligence is massively underrated.

Running a honest business and giving full measure to clients.

That a successful relationship has a transcendent core.

Perhaps one day renovating a summer home. This simple yet tasteful renovation was profiled in the NY Times. In my opinion, the only thing missing is a lake and a garden.

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On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It's a moving target these days.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Truly loving someone is a selfless act.
You should message me if
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Something here resonates with you.

You have a good heart and are not afraid to show it.

You think we would be good for each other.