While I say I am poly and married I do want to make a few things clear. My wife and I are the best of friends, but however that is as far as it goes these days. While we're not splitting up at the moment, we are both not interested physically in each other and have not been 'together' for some time. So what I am looking for is someone who will fit into my 'family' here, willing to understand that I am together with a wonderful woman and a man who I love as a brother (again, as far as it goes), and really want to find someone who will be my lifemate. Someone who wants to share their life with me completely, who wants to be with someone who will devote themselves to her, someone who will not judge and asks not to be judged as well. So yes, while I do like the poly lifestyle I am not looking for someone who wants to be shared or in a threeway or anything like that. I want a woman who will be there for me, and me alone. She should have a desire to be a part of my family for everyday life but be mine otherwise.
I have a wonderful little by who is a huge focus of my life. I was trained as a primary education school teacher (K-5) and love kids. I'm not sure if I want more later in life, but I've got no problem with someone who comes with children. Future children are negotiable.
I'm really wanting a woman who wants to be a part of my life in full, who is comfortable cuddling on the couch and being lightly touched as we watch a movie or a tv show, who will be interested in what I'm doing as well as wants someone who will be interested in what she does.
If you're looking for a one night stand or something not serious, I'm likely not for you. If you want a friend that might lead to more I'd love to hear from you. If you want someone who will be there for you, be someone who you can lean on and count on, someone who wants to be a part of your life and share his life with you, please drop me a line.
I've recently returned to New York with my family.