Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a married (see below) polyamorous (see below) Pagan male who
would like to find female friends who are Pagan, polyamorous, or
interested in the lifestyle. I walk the Shaman path, love reading,
movies, music, computers, video games, board games, card games, and
more. I am an amateur hypnotist as well, do woodworking and glass
etching as well.
While I say I am poly and married I do want to make a few things
clear. My wife and I are the best of friends, but however that is
as far as it goes these days. While we're not splitting up at the
moment, we are both not interested physically in each other and
have not been 'together' for some time. So what I am looking for is
someone who will fit into my 'family' here, willing to understand
that I am together with a wonderful woman and a man who I love as a
brother (again, as far as it goes), and really want to find someone
who will be my lifemate. Someone who wants to share their life with
me completely, who wants to be with someone who will devote
themselves to her, someone who will not judge and asks not to be
judged as well. So yes, while I do like the poly lifestyle I am not
looking for someone who wants to be shared or in a threeway or
anything like that. I want a woman who will be there for me, and me
alone. She should have a desire to be a part of my family for
everyday life but be mine otherwise.
I have a wonderful little by who is a huge focus of my life. I was
trained as a primary education school teacher (K-5) and love kids.
I'm not sure if I want more later in life, but I've got no problem
with someone who comes with children. Future children are
I'm really wanting a woman who wants to be a part of my life in
full, who is comfortable cuddling on the couch and being lightly
touched as we watch a movie or a tv show, who will be interested in
what I'm doing as well as wants someone who will be interested in
what she does.
If you're looking for a one night stand or something not serious,
I'm likely not for you. If you want a friend that might lead to
more I'd love to hear from you. If you want someone who will be
there for you, be someone who you can lean on and count on, someone
who wants to be a part of your life and share his life with you,
please drop me a line.
I've recently returned to New York with my family.
What I’m doing with my life
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Right now I'm disabled so I tend to be home quite often. I play a
lot of computer games, some MMOs, and read quite a bit.
I’m really good at
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reading (speed reader), writing, computers, hypnosis and more.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I resemble a fairly large bear.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Huge Firefly/Serenity fan. LOve all sorts of music, although I love
parodies and 80's music quite a bit. Love fantasy and science
fiction books and movies.
One book in particular I love that it seems no one's ever heard of.
Villains By Necessity by Eve Forward. Love that book to no end,
gone through like 3 copies of it already and can't find another out
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Any six random internal organs. Well, except the appendix. That
little organ can go away for all I care and we're not on speaking
terms any longer.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whatever has come up during the day. Or just random stuff. Random
stuff can be fun. At times I ponder the meaning of the Universe,
and wonder if it wears pants.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home. Playing games or watching a movie or whatever got DVR'd this
week. Unless I have someone here in which case anything goes.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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You should message me if you like what you've been reading and want
to get to know me for whatever reason.
If you want unconditional love, respect and affection. If you want
a lifemate. If you want someone who will be there for you, no
matter what. If you want someone to hold you, cuddle you, kiss you,
to caress you at any time of the day, to love you and be loved,
then please get in touch with me.
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