I desire someone to adore. Someone who gets me. And I'm not saying that's easy. But true connections? They ain't easy to find. So I try to keep hope alive. Make me laugh and we're halfway there. A sense of humor is a wonderful thing. A muse would make me very happy.
I'm a creative person, and I act like it, definitely marching to my own syncopated drummer. I am a playwright and a director. When able, I love performing solo shows and voiceovers. I'm a big believer in self expression. My day job, however, is quite cool. In fact, the coolest job in New York. The special effects director,and certified pyro-technician, for a network TV comedy show.
I've been told that I'm a good blend of evolved gentleman and cocky-card-carrying caveman. (You cannot make that up. Well, you could. But I didn't.) I am wholesome and not so much at the same time.
Quite intuitive. I consider myself interesting, complex and opinionated. Most of all I'm a real man. I even watch real man sports like football, basketball, boxing and women's tennis. I love Bikram yoga. Great meditation and workout. That also means I like it hot, sweaty and intense, lasting for 90 minutes. (Double entendre thrown in for free!)
I'm looking for a fit and attractive woman who is intelligent with the ability to talk about anything and everything. I like women. And I seek someone sensible, creative and feminine. I truly appreciate and understand powerful, assertive women who may sometimes desire to surrender that power. I've been told that letting go can be liberating. I get that. Ethnicity is not important. Why would it be or should it be? Integrity, however, is very important. Mutual respect is paramount and I have an expert's radar for bullshit. (let me repeat that in slow motion: "I have an expert's radar for bull-shit.") Not a big fan of high maintenance for high maintenance sake. Not looking for a princess because I'm no prince. But I am quite charming.
I'm basically an honest person. But yes, I have told a little black lie. Who hasn't?
I used to think I knew exactly what I was looking for in a mate, but life has a way of telling you that you don't know jack crap. I really wish I could articulate my type. But maybe I just don't have one. I do know that I seek my best friend and a fantastic lover with relationship potential. I guess that's a good place to start.
I grew up on British comedies, Cheech and Chong and Richard Pryor, so you can imagine what that has done to my brain.