Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Moving to San Francisco in May 2015 with my husband Derek. We've
been together for five years, living in Dublin, Ireland for most of
Still looking for an apartment and a job. And I'll need friends.
I am cerebral, rational, and obsessive.
What I’m doing with my life
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My husband and my friends are my life.
I’m really good at
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I enjoy getting to understand things. And I like to think I'm good
at it. More annoyingly, I also love explaining things I understand.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Non-fiction from Stephen Pinker, Richard Dawkins or Stephen
Fiction about 'grand experiments of human society', such as 1984,
Brave New World, Accelerando, Permutation City, the Culture series.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:
The people I love.
The hope that I can make things better.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What makes people tick. What makes people enjoy football and hate
evolution? How does society make people dicks? Why is hypocrisy so
much fun? Why do people imagine that you need a car to be free? Why
is abortion suddenly controversial? Are ghettos societies within
society, with their own system of government?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I like to go out, usually on Saturday night. Otherwise, I'm at home
watching TV or reading a book with my husband
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm afraid of most fruits and vegetables.
I greatly enjoy listening to video in which you can hear the
plastic casing of the camera. (ASMR)
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