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Ecca_J

27 F Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
Aug 3
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm constantly trying to find the balance between the rational, practical parts of my personality and the creative free-spirit parts. I spent three years working in health policy in SF, a year teaching yoga in Connecticut, a summer hitchhiking around the US, and now I've landed in Brooklyn where I'm working on a novel.

I'm not into messaging; I don't think it gives me a good idea of whether or not I'd like to get to know you. If you want to get together just ask me to meet up.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work part-time as a nanny and I write.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Having substantive conversations with people I just met
Traveling solo
Adapting to new situations
Keeping up with my friends and family
Not holding grudges
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The first person who noticed anything about me was my dad, who exclaimed as I was plucked from my mother via C-section "Look at her legs! She looks like a basketball player!"

People still occasionally comment on my long legs. This always makes me feel slightly nervous, as though I have come full circle and should die immediately.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books
Never Let Me Go (Kazu Ishiguro)
The Blind Assassin (Margaret Atwood)
The Book Thief (Marcus Zusak)
Wild (Cheryl Strayed)
The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao (Junot Diaz)

Movies
Film really is not as good as TV lately but:
Guys and Dolls
Shakespeare in Love
Star Wars (Episodes IV and V)

TV Shows
Star Trek: Voyager (but I'm a huge trekkie, everything but DS9 and Enterprise is a go in my book)
Buffy the Vampire Slayer
Battlestar Galactica (first 2 seasons)
Party Down
How I Met Your Mother
Mad Men
...and so many more. I really do think that it's the Golden Age of television and I'm always down to talk about TV shows
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Freedom to travel
Retro-inspired fashion
Support from my friends and family
Comfortable walking shoes
Wit
Something to write with
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Public policy
Figuring out the logic behind people's actions
Stories
Whether I'm satisfied
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a play that is entertaining, easy to watch, and makes me think
Dining (in or out) and catching up with a few close friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Until about age nine, I liked to yank wild onions out of the ground and eat them. I tell myself that this must have done wonders for my immune system, but in all honestly it just means I've eaten a truly disturbing amount of dog shit.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 25–31
  • Near me
  • For casual sex
You should message me if
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You connect deeply with the people in your life, you're compassionate, you value making yourself happy, you can cut through OKC's signaling and noise problem.