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42 M Raleigh, NC

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Other, and laughing about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Overall, I am happy: the product of a balance of Work and Life, I feel the thing that maintains this bliss are connections with real people. you will find a desire for honest communication, and mutual respect. I don't avoid the truth; rather, I am considerate of all involved, and will work to ensure that those I interact with are treated with the utmost in fairness.

I love experiencing all that Life has to offer: Nature, Sun, fresh Air, exercise, a relaxing walk. I like the Arts, movies, music of all kinds, theatre, and International Cuisine.

Meeting new people: important to keep friends, but add new people to your Life, so you can understand who lives in the World you inhabit. Having many friends adds considerably to the richness of life.

I want to find someone who enjoys getting out and wants to share in those experiences with me.

According to Myers-Briggs, my temperment is an ENTJ

According to the OKC Dating Persona test, I am:

The Gentleman -- DGLM on OkCupid's test:

I'm not on "A-List."
What I’m doing with my life
Busy man who is looking for a little more in his life. I detest drama and am looking for someone laid back to mutually enjoy spending time with. Would love to find someone who enjoys being active, for I have a hard time sitting still! My free time is precious, but hopefully well worth it! I'm easy going; I'll talk about anything, and like to get to know others.

I also like to acquire, & apply knowledge so people will have a more educated, and therefore better existence. Notable attributes are: empathetic nature, intelligence, incessant sense of humor, abundance of energy, and an outgoing and inquisitive nature. I am extremely open-minded, and admire the same qualities in others.

I like being physically fit. I do the gym 5 days/week, road-bike ride around 70 to 100 miles per week A rigorous exercise routine is a phenomenal way to accentuate the best that life has to offer.

I like clubbing, travel (anything from beach trip to hiking in Blue Ridge Pkwy), visiting other cities, and learning about the culture and history. Anything that serves to increase both understanding and enjoyment of the world that surrounds me, piques my interest.

I like to read. I like to know about my world, so an online encyclopedia is a valuable, rich resource. I also read non-fiction.

I'm looking for someone who makes life more interesting. Not just shallow excitement, but one that adds to the experiences that life gives us, and she shares her uniqueness, so that we both have each others' point of view. I like someone who wants to experience life: try new things, go a different way, have fun, laugh, play the radio loud while going! You only live once...have fun!

I am straight forward and honest-I feel that is the least we can do for the people with whom we spend our time. I guess I’m like anyone else, in that I seek a meaningful connection with someone based on trust, caring, honesty and respect...of course there has to be some kind of physical attraction... ;)

Is this you? Are you as intellectually active as physical? Do you have an undying love for life, not just exist, but actively go out in the world, challenge your perceptions and expectations? The person I find attractive shall be kind, intelligent, witty, adventurous, athletic, and most important, my best friend. Could I be lucky to have you as a confidant, lover, and intellectual equal?

Most important, the woman in my life will posses an intrinsic motivation to appreciate all I have to offer. In return, I will cherish our relationship, and make her feel extraordinary.

What else is understanding and rejoicing in the fact that another person lives, acts and experiences otherwise than we do…?
--Fredrich Nietzsche
I’m really good at
Finding a balance in Life and enjoying it! So much to see and do.

When I find the right person: Loving her, holding her, seeing her smile, sharing her life, and feeling the phenomenal addition that Love adds to ones existence.
The first things people usually notice about me
Usually my eyes; they are green, which is rare, I think ... My smile and also my demeanor. I am a happy person and it shows. Attitude is everything.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Parting with Illusions, Malcolm Gladwells books, pretty much anything by Stephen King, most of Hemingway
Magazines: The Economist, Details, and all grocery store gossip rags

Music: Acid Trance, Progressive House, French House, Jazz, Classical, 60's rock

Food: LOVE Italian! Seafood, Spanish/Mexican. Greek is also sought-after, ranked near Italian.

Movies: Pretty much everything from art house types to Fast and the Furious...

TED Talks, David Attenborough documentaries

Shows: Tosh.0, TDS, Colbert Report, Southpark, Chelsea Lately, Politically Incorrect, CYE, Archer, Pinky & The Brain,


Totally tweek out on EDM when exercising!

Oakenfold, Tiesto, The Prodigy, NIN,

Classical: Bach, Mozart, Beethoven.

60's Rock: Led Zepplin, Muddy Waters, Beatles, Black Sabbath,

Jazz: Etta James, Ella Fitzgerald, Louis Armstrong, Dave Brubeck Quartet.

More to come!
The six things I could never do without
There are just six?

I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to reach my goals in Life, be a better person.
On a typical Friday night I am
...whatever I want.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like to Trust. I like relationships--of all kinds--to have Principals as a center of Gravity: the relating is thus both parties respecting each others' wishes, learning, and becoming better people because of the experience.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you're strong, social, and grounded we will get along, as well as: bright, polite, progressive, curious, and warm. However, brave, strong, Type-A with the listed attributes is a big plus.

If you have a broad interests and you like reading, traveling, sport, art, history and biology. Also if you think you are smart, so we can talk for hours about everything. I would be really happy if you can stimulate my mind, go to the gym with me, dance all night with me and laugh at yourself and me.

I regularly exercise; both outdoors and gym, I want a partner who also works out, or wants to begin working out. Lets make exercise time something we can share.

Also: Think about things seriously without taking yourself too seriously. Optimists with black senses of humor. Genuine interest in other people & things.