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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 6:43am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Other, and laughing about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Overall, I am happy: the product of a balance of Work and Life, I feel the thing that maintains this bliss are connections with real people. You will find a desire for honest communication and mutual respect. I don't avoid the truth; rather, I am considerate of all involved, and will work to ensure that those I interact with are treated with the utmost in fairness.

I love experiencing all that Life has to offer: Nature, Sun, fresh Air, exercise, a relaxing walk. I like the Arts, movies, music of all kinds, theatre, and International Cuisine.

Meeting new people: important to keep friends, but add new people to your Life. Having many friends adds considerably to the richness of life.

I want to find someone who enjoys getting out and wants to share in those experiences with me.

*According to Myers-Briggs, my temperament is an ENTJ*

According to the OKC Dating Persona test, I am:

The Gentleman -- DGLM on OkCupid's test:

*I am very GGG and expect same.*
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am in Healthcare Management.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding a balance in Life and enjoying it! So much to see and do.

When I find the right person: Loving her, seeing her smile, sharing her life, and feeling the phenomenal addition that Love adds to ones existence.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Usually my eyes; they are green. My smile and demeanor also. I am a happy person and it shows. Attitude is everything.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Parting with Illusions, Malcolm Gladwells books, pretty much anything by Stephen King, most of Hemingway.
Nearly anything Non-Fiction that has Social, Financial, Psychological and Political issues as the subject matter pique my interests.

Magazines: The Economist, Details, Wired, Physics Today, Psychology Today and all grocery store gossip rags

Newspapers NYT and WSJ.

Music: Acid Trance, Progressive House, French House, Jazz, Classical, 60's rock

Food: LOVE Italian! Seafood, Spanish/Mexican. Greek is also sought-after, ranked near Italian.

Movies: Pretty much everything from art house types to Fast and the Furious...

Some that stand out: The Cook the Thief His Wife & Her Lover, Raising Arizona, The Secretary, Purple Rain, Rushmore, Party Girl, Donnie Darko, The Graduate, Clockwork Orange, Exit Through the Gift Shop, Amelie, Badder Santa, Hebrew Hammer, Ghostbusters, Maleficent.

TED Talks, David Attenborough documentaries, NOVA Science NOW.

Shows: Tosh.0, TDS, Colbert Report, Southpark, Chelsea Lately, Politically Incorrect, CYE, Archer, Pinky & The Brain, American Ninja Warrior, Cosmos: A Space-time Odyssey, Star-Trek:TNG, and more...


Totally tweek out on EDM when exercising!

Oakenfold, Tiesto, The Prodigy, NIN,

Classical: Bach, Mozart, Beethoven.

60's Rock: Led Zepplin, Muddy Waters, Beatles, Black Sabbath,

Jazz: Etta James, Ella Fitzgerald, Louis Armstrong, Dave Brubeck Quartet.

More to come!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
There are just six?

I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to reach my goals in Life, be a better person.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...can be alot of things; got any ideas?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like to Trust. I like relationships--of all kinds--to have Principals as a center of Gravity.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you're interested!!

If you have a broad interests and you think you are smart, so we can talk for hours about everything. I would be really happy if you can stimulate my mind, go to the gym with me, dance all night with me and laugh at yourself and me.

Also: Think about things seriously without taking yourself too seriously. Optimists with black senses of humor. Genuine interest in other people & things.