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Eclectic22

58 M Rochester, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:58am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Education
Two-year college
Job
Politics / Government
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
"... to get full value of a joy you must have somebody to divide it with." - Mark Twain- You might find me star gazing at the planetarium, leafing through Bon Appetit for a dinner idea, biking down Park Ave, throwing a pot at the Genesee Center for the Arts, paddling my canoe in the Adirondacks or wine tasting in Hammondsport. I enjoy listening to varied types of music, offbeat independent and foreign films, and exploring new places and cultures. I'm seeking a joyful optimist to share new experiences and have interesting conversations with. Someone who laughs easily, is secure in themselves, communicates their feelings and thoughts openly and can occasionally be spontaneous.
What I’m doing with my life
“We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”
I will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way.

Let our scars fall in love.”
Galway Kinnell
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 47–65
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating