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EclecticChaos

29 Ann Arbor, MI Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 18–36
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Technology
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello, I'm Louis. Nice to meet you, in a fashion.

Can a person be summarized? No. Even the most simple, the most dull of us can. We are complicated creatures on the whole. However, ones projected personality can be approximated. Here below; Louis, the approximation.

Im am a Burner, a Morris Dancer, a Maker, a Dancer, a Cuddle Fanatic, Tactile, a Hooper, a Night Owl, Sexual, Adventurous, Loving, Funny, Sociable, Kind], Emotional, Stoic, Zen, an Introvert, Outgoing, Self-Contradictory, Well Spoken at times, a Blundering Fool at others.

Looking for the "selling features"? I'm Honest, Straight Forward, Caring, Well Endowed, Understanding, Intelligent, Independent, Financially Stable and I get great Gas Milage. Okay, the last one is a fallacy, drinking gasoline would probably kill me, let's not try it.

We all have our flaws, I am no exception, flaws make us who we are, maybe perhaps than strengths. I sometimes lack tact; I'm particular, hedonistic and forgetful; I suffer migraines and fatigue; I fail at mornings and getting places on time; I'm forgetful and competitive; I'm not into spectator-sport culture.

Myers Briggs says I'm a ENTP and while it is, like all classifications, a generalization, it is spot on. I'm very honest and happy to be blunt, if there is anything you'd like to know about me, my intentions, my desires or my dreams, start a conversation and ask me.

I work as a Software Engineer and have been in the field for 8 years. I have many, widely varied hobbies. A few of my recent ones are Sound Tech, Electrical Engineering, Sewing, Gaming (Computer, Board and Card) and Dancing.

In a lover, I'm looking for someone Adventurous, Durable, Sexual, Unique, Complicated, Busty, Clever, Positive, Cuddly, Eloquent and Interesting.

I'm smart and responsible, but I like to take risks, to do things outside of my confort zone. Whether friend or lover, I like people of a similar tribe.

Sometimes you read, watch or see something and there is a person you become totally absorbed by, an individual that you feel lessened for not being able to know, to have in your life. It's rare, but there are people that you get instantly drawn into. I'm looking for that person.

You can grow into love, into friendship, into comfort and familiarity, but what I'm looking for is someone with that instinctual attraction, that unexplainable know-it-when-you-feel-it click. Someone I can feel connected to, feel desire for and desire from, someone who will be my friend, my lover and my companion.

I'm looking for someone to be with, but I am not looking for any particular type of relationship or structure. I'm not monogamous by nature. What I'm looking for is probably closest to a "primary", but I like to let relationships develop naturally and become whatever fits.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm exploring life, myself, others and existence.

I believe the most important thing to do with ones life is to learn to exist, to enjoy the world, to better yourself and to explore.

I've listed hobbies in the above section, so lets talk "work". Professionally I'm a Software Engineer and have been since 2005. At this point I'd say I'm pretty successful, though that obviously doesn't mean I've lost interest or aren't evolving my skills anymore. I'm working full time for a company in New York City, as mentioned above.

I also own a small, independent business that works in the iOS and Android markets as a development contractor. I do very little work for said company, given how much I make at my day job and how much of my time I invest in my hobbies and side projects, but for tax reasons I do keep the company running and active.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I've been told by quite a few people that I'm exceptionally good at cuddling, if that can be called a "talent". I've also been told that I give exceptional hugs, am good in bed and good at explaining my thought processes, but again, are those "talents"?

Otherwise I'm good at many things and above average at many more, I tend to be a jack-of-all-trades. I have a talent for picking things up easily and as a result change secondary interests often.

I'm particularly good at Air Hockey....wanna play?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Personality wise, I'm clever, funny, unique and have a fair bit of wit.

Physically, I have no idea. It's not something I've really asked anyone and it's not something people just walk up to you and say. I'm told that I have nice legs, but that's more of a general observation than a first impression.

If you ever meet me let me please let me know what the first thing you notice is, maybe it will give me something better to put on here.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
There is a whole pile of new things I need to add here, but the list at the moment......

Also, opinions on me listing things one-item per line? Too long? Easier to read? So far I have yet to have a single person comment on that fact, just that my profile needs shortening.

-| Books |-
Alice's Adventures in Wonderland Lewis Carroll
Atlas Shrugged Ayn Rand
Dirk Gently's Holistic Detective Agency (Series) Douglas Adams
The Fountainhead Ayn Rand
Fragile Things Neil Gaiman
Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy (Series) Douglas Adams
House of Leaves Mark Z. Danielewski
Ishmael Daniel Quinn (Thank you verita_bella)
Johnny the Homicidal Maniac (Series) Jhonen Vasquez
Neverwhere Neil Gaiman
Mogworld by Benjamin "Yahtzee" Croshaw
Myst (Series) Rand and Robyn Miller
Rememberence of Things Past (I haven't finished this yet but it's really good) Marcel Proust
Robot (Series, I haven't read all of it as it isn't completely translated yet) Various
The Sandman (Series) Neil Gaiman
Smoke and Mirrors Neil Gaiman
Symphony of Ages (Series)
Through the Looking-Glass, and What Alice Found There Lewis Carroll
The Witch Watch by Shamus Young

-| Music |-
Alan Parsons Project
Alanis Morissette
and but a single stone remained
Andrew LLoyd Webber (Composer)
Ani Difranco
Aqua
Barenaked Ladies
Belle and Sebastian
Blaqk Audio
Black Eyed Peas
Boa (The UK Band)
Cascada
Claire Voyant
Combustible Edison
Dar Williams
The Decemberists
Delerium
Denki Grove
Denny Elfman (Composer)
Der En Grey (I've Seen Live)
Dresden Dolls
E Muzeki (I've Seen Live, they broke up recently)
Enya
Five for Fighting
Flogging Molly
Frou Frou
Garmarna
Giorgio Costantini
Gorillaz
Gravity Kills
Gögol Bordello (I've Seen Live)
Hot Banana Milk
Inimikal
Imogen Heap
Iron & Wine
Jem
Joe Knaapen (Friend of mine, has no albums)
Jupiter for Sarah (I've Seen Live, they don't appear to exist as of several years ago)
Kodo
Korn
Loituma
Loreena McKennitt
Morcheeba
Neutral Milk Hotel
Nightwish
Nine Inch Nails
Nox Arcana
One Ring Zero
Poe
Porcupine Tree
Radiohead
Rage Against The Machine
Richard Cheese
Rob Zombie
Simon & Garfunkel
Tatu (I much prefer the Russian versions)
Tegan and Sara (I've Seen Live)
That Him! That's The Guy! (I've Seen Live)
The Cranberries
The Dead Hours
The Dresdon Dolls
The Endless
The Goo Goo Dolls (I've Seen Live)
The Killers
The Tic Tok Men
The W's
The White Stripes
VNV Nation (I've Seen Live)

-| Movies |-
Alices Adventures in Wonderland
American Beauty
Armitage
Back to the Future
Being John Malkovich
Bettlejuice
Casshern
The Chronicles of Riddick
City of Lost Children
Donnie Darko
Edward Scissorhands
Fight Club
Four Rooms
Freeze Me
The Game
Ghost in the Shell
Ghost in the Shell: Solid State Society
Gia
Gormenghast
Grave of the Fireflies
Harry Potter
The Hole: 2000 Seen By
Interview With a Vampire
Kill Bill
Kite
The Last Samurai
Lone Wolf and Cub
Matrix
Memoirs of a Geisha
Momento
Monty Python and the Holy Grail
Mulholland Drive
Oldboy
Pans Labyrinth
Perfect Blue
Phantom of the Opera
Primer
Requiem for a Dream
Run Lola Run
Serenity
Serial Experiments: Lain
Sin City
SLC Punk
Star Wars - The original trilogy.
Texhnolyze

-| TV SHOWS |-
(This is only a list that I started writing recently, it is a baby list and by no means complete)
Are You Being Served
Babylon 5
Dark Angel
Dilbert
Dolllhouse
Ergo Proxy
Family Guy
Firefly
Ghost in the Shell
Gunslinger Girl
House
Last Exile
MythBusters
Ninja Warrior
Paranoia Agent
Pawn Stars
Red Dwarf
South Park
Star Trek (All of them, though I've only seen a single episode of enterprise and none of the animated series)
The Prisoner
The Sarah Connor Chronicles
The Simpsons (Though I haven't seen an episode in years)
Witch Hunter Robin
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Love; life; sex; things to come and things long lost; time; nothing; music; people; sentience; emotions; opinions; motivation and drive.

Lately I wonder if the ease of survival in modern society inures the soul. We live easy lives, yet we create such malady and strife for ourselves. I think that, on a deep level, we are unable to accept the simplicity of our situation, the ease of surviving. I think that we need to fight for our survival, It’s in our nature to fight, to work relentlessly to secure the right to exist and the right for a future. We never feel so at peace or content as when we are fighting a battle of need and overcome. Out in the forest, hunting for food, did our ancestors get this constant tug that there was something important that was missing from life - or did they exist content and assured of their place in the world and their reason for being?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Admit to the internet? The PUBLIC internet? Seems a little, contradictory...

Since this section makes NO sense, I instead present you with a number of non-private facts that just aren't likely to come up in normal conversation and which I find interesting:
-I like to shower in the dark, I don't remember exactly when I picked up the habit, I just find it extremely relaxing and meditative.
-Incidentally, I have very good spacial skills.
-I like to my bed often, but don't every day. Getting into a made bed is very enjoyable though.
-I really like music in languages I can't understand.
-I get migraines, they are the DEATH.
-I like watching pro Tennis, but not any other spectator sport.
-While I think cats are really cute, I think that Chipmunks might be more cute, I <3 Chipmunks. After that, Giraffes might be a third, I don't know why, but Giraffes are awesome.
-I like playing pretty much all sports, even though I don't like watching them. I'm not good at most of them, but that doesn't stop me from enjoying them.
-I am against the oxford comma, I don't know exactly why. I don't believe it is objectively better not to use it, I just prefer it's absence.
-I've always wanted to have sex outside in a thunderstorm. If you are interested, that constitutes an invitation.
-I own way more clothing than most people do.
-I've got quite a bit of body hair, my heritage is pretty much all from cold, snowy places.
-I'm a breasts man, both in that I'm extremely attracted to breasts and like very large breasts.
-Also, I've very attracted to redheads.
-I like being asked personal questions, it's fun to know all of the answers! Ask me something :p
-I am great at recalling facts for esoteric or useless things, but only when they aren't relevant.
-I'm well-endowed (7"+ Long, 6"+ Around]).
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're an old soul; you're unique, with all the good and the bad that come with it; you have heterochromia iridis; you feel deeply.

Let me know if you think you'd like me, you're interesting and you'd like to grab dinner or a drink sometime, even if you aren't usually the sort that start conversations.

Being honest though, we all just wants to connect with other people, so any reason you have for messaging me is a good enough reason to start a conversation. You never know what you might find until you try.

I am not specifically looking for commitment or a primary partner, but if things were to develop in that direction I'm happy to take them there.

I am a very affectionate person and am very caring, generous and thoughtful to those I am involved with, regardless of the nature of the relationship.