Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'll be completely upfront in admitting that I recently got out of
a LTR. Therefore, I'm neither rushing to get back into another one
nor looking for a rebound. But, to play devil's advocate, I'm by no
means hiding from the potential of finding the future love of my
life. I'm just putting myself back out there, ya know? I know what
I want, and in order to be ready for it, I'm focusing my attention
on becoming the right person. If my profile seems interesting, then
send me a message. I like messages :) Now for the good
I'm multiracial, attracted to both men and women, and yes, a deeply
devoted Christian woman. If you're still reading, then that means
you're either a) perplexed, b) intrigued, c) attracted, d) a mix of
a-b-c, or e) all of the above. Regardless of the answer, let's keep
it moving, shall we?
I have a passionate heart for people, avidly support social justice
efforts, care about the environment, love music (I play guitar),
and am an extremely athletic sports fan. I do consider myself to be
fairly intelligent, and I have a pretty solid (but unique) sense of
style. I appreciate the same in my partner. I hate being put into a
box, so please don't attempt to do it. I'm known for being raw,
utilizing sarcasm whenever possible, and making rigid people
uncomfortable. Sometimes I think these things are necessary, but I
am learning to exercise censorship... well, mildly. And let it be
known that both extreme conservatives and liberals annoy me to the
core - all things considered I'm fairly moderate. I'm willing to
bet that you have not and will not ever meet another person quite
like me. The depth of my soul far exceeds the length of this
P.S. I love tattoos and pierced ears. Simply irresistible.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
... is awesome, and it's only going to get better. I work full-time
as a mentor for adolescent girls (one of the coolest, most
challenging, and rewarding jobs ever), and this semester I'm
beginning seminary (did I mention that I have apirations of
traveling the world, pastoring, and doing ministry?). I hold an
advanced degree in Psychology and feel blessed to finally have a
unique career that utilizes my education. Ultimately I want to love
people, offer hope to the brokenhearted, and reconcile the most
unlikely of communities. This is my way of sharing the
As once stated by Gandhi, “If we could change ourselves, the
tendencies in the world would also change. As a man changes his own
nature, so does the attitude of the world change towards him. … We
need not wait to see what others do.” I challenge myself daily to
be the change.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
playing sports, relating to others, decorating/designing/styling,
making people laugh, interceding, and apparently counseling folk.
Good to know that the debt of my graduate education wasn't acquired
in vain. I'm also oddly handy. Who doesn't appreciate a lady who
can manage a toolbox?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
1) I have a fauxhawk, and it's sexy.
2) I have a gap, and it's sexy.
3) I'm well built for a woman, and it's sexy.
4) I'm funny, and it's awkward.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm ECLECTIC. Really. I like books and movies that make me think or
laugh, music made by actual musicians, and food in general. But
here are my absolute faves...
Books: The Bible, The Color of Water, Girls Like Us, Blue Like
Movies: The Last Dragon, Pride and Prejudice, Love and Basketball,
films relating to war and intel, 80s flicks, anything with Edward
Shows: HGTV, Scandal, football
Music: India.Arie, Jack Johnson, Norah Jones, Anthony Hamilton,
Switchfoot, stuff that makes my booty move, 90s jams, R&B, and
most Christian artists
Food: BBQ, Thai, Italian, Greek, Mexican, Sushi, Chocolate Chip
Cookies with ice-cold Milk, Cereal
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
2) Family & Friends
5) ... did I say my iPhone?
6) Hygiene products
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my relationship with God (He and I commune daily). I also have a
tendency to overanalyze the past and the future. I'm a dreamer to
say the least. And I've thought rather extensively about what I
would name my children.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out and about on occasion or relaxing back at the house. I'm by no
means a wild child, but I do like to have fun and meet new people.
If I'm boo'd up, I like to chill indoors and cuddle. My love
language is quality time...
... and kissing. Oh, kissing.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I seem interesting (and hopefully attractive) to you. Why else
would you message me lol? A few things to note though: I absolutely
loathe cigarette smoke and drugs, but people who take pride in
their health/hygiene/appearance make me swoon. Chivalry, romance,
and selflessness all go a very long way with me as well.
Sidenote: It would behoove you to refrain from messaging me if you
are in an open relationship, have ex issues, like to lie, can't
communicate effectively, don't do monogamy, or have the emotional
capacity of a 5-year old. You'd think these standards would be
common sense, but I'm learning that far too many people these days
are testing positive for crazy and unstable. No bueno.
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