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45 Ithaca, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30-50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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Last online
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5' 0" (1.52m)
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Special Diet
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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The New Macho~ (this is written by a man) If what you read below resonates within you, then I would like to hear from you.

He cleans up after himself. He cleans up the planet. He is a role model for young men. He is rigorously honest and fiercely optimistic.

He holds himself accountable. He knows what he feels. He knows how to cry and he lets it go. He knows how to rage without hurting others. He knows how to fear and how to keep moving. He seeks self-mastery.

He has let go of childish shame. He feels guilty when he’s done something wrong. He is kind to men, kind to women, kind to children. He teaches others how to be kind. He says he’s sorry.

He stopped blaming women or his parents or men for his pain years ago. He stopped letting his defenses ruin his relationships. He stopped letting his penis run his life. He has enough self-respect to tell the truth. He creates intimacy and trust with his actions. He has men that he trusts and that he turns to for support. He knows how to roll with it. He knows how to make it happen. He is disciplined when he needs to be. He is flexible when he needs to be. He knows how to listen from the core of his being.

He’s not afraid to get dirty. He’s ready to confront his own limitations. He has high expectations for himself and for those he connects with. He looks for ways to serve others. He knows he is an individual. He knows that we are all one. He knows he is an animal and a part of nature. He knows his spirit and his connection to something greater.

He knows that the future generations are watching his actions. He builds communities where people are respected and valued. He takes responsibility for himself and is also willing to be his brother’s keeper.

He knows his higher purpose. He loves with fierceness. He laughs with abandon, because he gets the joke.

This is the Mature Masculine – the New Warrior – a re-definition of masculinity for the 21st century. By no means is this list complete.

" You can connect from all kinds of places- energetic
harmony, sexual alchemy, intellectual alignment- but
they won’t sustain love over a lifetime. You need a
thread that goes deeper, that moves below and beyond
the shifting sands of compatibility. That thread is
fascination- a genuine fascination with someone’s
inner world, with the way they organize reality, with
the way they hearticulate their feelings, with the
unfathomable and bottomless depths of their being.

If there is that, then there will still be love when the body
sickens, when the sexuality fades, when the perfection
projection is long shattered. If there is that, you will
swim in love’s waters until the very last breath."

~Jeff Brown
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Originally I am a transplant from Oxford, England. After 20 years in Los Angeles I decided that a change was needed...So I traded in my high-heels for my wellies to come live in what I feel is the most beautiful part of New York; upstate, or more importantly, the fingerlakes, they are amazing. The beauty that surrounds me takes my breath away everyday. I am looking for a partner who wants to live a sustainable life; a homestead. One who is as passionate about the environment as I am. I want a rugged mountain man, who is intelligent, wise, passionate and compassionate; are you out there?!!!!!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
hmmm not sure I want to answer that question here...;) I am passionate about my beliefs, I think I am a good conversationalist, sometimes funny, very domesticated. Preparing good healthy food from scratch.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, I love to make eye contact, a connection, and that there is always something mischievous in them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read stuff that I can learn and improve myself on. Detoxify or Die was a great one so informative. Right now I am reading Vertical Gardening

My music tastes vary depending on my mood. I love Pandora there is so much music out there you would never hear. And last but not least food...well what can I say I am very healthy. I try to eat organic and eat out as little as possible as that way I can have more control over what goes in my body. I am very conscious of food and nutrition as I don't want to be sick and crippled when I am older; it doesn't have to be that way.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Healthy Eating
Bikram Yoga
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Self-reliance and sustainability. I moved to the country to live a more simpler life. The things that once were important seem so meager now. I just want to grow my own food, make good healthy food from scratch;
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to get to the next level in my life. Working hard and studying to make changes. Dinner with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I chew my toenails.................................................Just kidding ;)
I have nice toe nails
You should message me if
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Single, funny, tall, rugged, intelligent, mature, quirky, green, organic, creative, fit, healthy, spiritual, passionate and compassionate. Open minded an absolute must!!