Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The New Macho~ (this is written by a man) If what you read below
resonates within you, then I would like to hear from you.
He cleans up after himself. He cleans up the planet. He is a role
model for young men. He is rigorously honest and fiercely
He holds himself accountable. He knows what he feels. He knows how
to cry and he lets it go. He knows how to rage without hurting
others. He knows how to fear and how to keep moving. He seeks
He has let go of childish shame. He feels guilty when he’s done
something wrong. He is kind to men, kind to women, kind to
children. He teaches others how to be kind. He says he’s
He stopped blaming women or his parents or men for his pain years
ago. He stopped letting his defenses ruin his relationships. He
stopped letting his penis run his life. He has enough self-respect
to tell the truth. He creates intimacy and trust with his actions.
He has men that he trusts and that he turns to for support. He
knows how to roll with it. He knows how to make it happen. He is
disciplined when he needs to be. He is flexible when he needs to
be. He knows how to listen from the core of his being.
He’s not afraid to get dirty. He’s ready to confront his own
limitations. He has high expectations for himself and for those he
connects with. He looks for ways to serve others. He knows he is an
individual. He knows that we are all one. He knows he is an animal
and a part of nature. He knows his spirit and his connection to
He knows that the future generations are watching his actions. He
builds communities where people are respected and valued. He takes
responsibility for himself and is also willing to be his brother’s
He knows his higher purpose. He loves with fierceness. He laughs
with abandon, because he gets the joke.
This is the Mature Masculine – the New Warrior – a re-definition of
masculinity for the 21st century. By no means is this list
" You can connect from all kinds of places- energetic
harmony, sexual alchemy, intellectual alignment- but
they won’t sustain love over a lifetime. You need a
thread that goes deeper, that moves below and beyond
the shifting sands of compatibility. That thread is
fascination- a genuine fascination with someone’s
inner world, with the way they organize reality, with
the way they hearticulate their feelings, with the
unfathomable and bottomless depths of their being.
If there is that, then there will still be love when the body
sickens, when the sexuality fades, when the perfection
projection is long shattered. If there is that, you will
swim in love’s waters until the very last breath."
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Originally I am a transplant from Oxford, England. After 20 years
in Los Angeles I decided that a change was needed...So I traded in
my high-heels for my wellies to come live in what I feel is the
most beautiful part of New York; upstate, or more importantly, the
fingerlakes, they are amazing. The beauty that surrounds me takes
my breath away everyday. I am looking for a partner who wants to
live a sustainable life; a homestead. One who is as passionate
about the environment as I am. I want a rugged mountain man, who is
intelligent, wise, passionate and compassionate; are you out
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
hmmm not sure I want to answer that question here...;) I am
passionate about my beliefs, I think I am a good conversationalist,
sometimes funny, very domesticated. Preparing good healthy food
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes, I love to make eye contact, a connection, and that there
is always something mischievous in them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read stuff that I can learn and improve myself on. Detoxify or
Die was a great one so informative. Right now I am reading Vertical
My music tastes vary depending on my mood. I love Pandora there is
so much music out there you would never hear. And last but not
least food...well what can I say I am very healthy. I try to eat
organic and eat out as little as possible as that way I can have
more control over what goes in my body. I am very conscious of food
and nutrition as I don't want to be sick and crippled when I am
older; it doesn't have to be that way.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Self-reliance and sustainability. I moved to the country to live a
more simpler life. The things that once were important seem so
meager now. I just want to grow my own food, make good healthy food
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to get to the next level in my life. Working hard and
studying to make changes. Dinner with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I chew my
I have nice toe nails
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Single, funny, tall, rugged, intelligent, mature, quirky, green,
organic, creative, fit, healthy, spiritual, passionate and
compassionate. Open minded an absolute must!!
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