Who I would like to meet? That’s also a tough question since I would like to see this dating thing as a way of discovering. I would normally say “someone with like qualities” and I guess in a way that’s true. I would like to meet someone who is at least happy with herself… hopefully smiles a lot since she is happy! Secure about her feelings and open to the possibilities. I’m a peaceful person, so that is also something I would like to see.
I consider myself good looking… maybe not the type for everyone, but I dress nice, decent, wear my colognes, and keep clean. I’m Puerto Rican so yes… it’s a gene thing! My partner… yes! I like a woman to be feminine, romantic, to smell good. I would like to get closer and feel your perfume, your beautiful hair and smile. One who is peaceful and passionate. A woman that makes me feel like she is an undiscovered treasure and her skin the map I should follow to reach it. .
There of course is the chemistry part… I tend to be more attractive to women who are from fit to few extra pounds. I know “few extra pounds” can vary wildly but I just look at myself. If you are bigger than me, then most likely is more than a few. But, I don’t just look at the physical part!
Things I do… I like Latin music and most of the time that’s what I listen to. I do dance salsa and looking to get better at it. I don’t go out everyday or every weekend. Sometimes I have to do stuff for work over the weekend. I’ve joined a motorcycle club to also meet new people and to go on rides on my Harley. I know a group of Spanish Karaokeros who I hang out with whenever possible on Karaoke nights. I’m not much into sports. I may watch on TV if at a bar, but I don’t schedule time to seat down and spend my time on that. The only one I may do that is boxing, but it is not a religious thing that I always have to watch. I’m nevertheless open to do new things with my partner. I would like to find those things we have in common or develop new ones we can share together.
I’m willing to meet people and by that I mean a picture doesn’t say all a person is… and I’m not just talking about the physical. There is a lot to learn from another person, and it takes time but most important, it takes willingness to take a chance to meet that person. I say to myself, “if I keep doing the same things, I’ll never meet that person”. So that’s how I see this dating thing. If you are at that point where you know it takes a chance to meet and open up to someone and if you find that we can at least meet, then let’s go for it. We will never know, right!
Good luck in your search...