Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
It's been so long since I've updated this thing, but I guess its
time to really time to do so.
So where do I begin.
Well, my motto comes from Peter Gabriel: "So Much Larger Than
Loves to laugh, loves to enjoy other people, loves to see the
world, and loves to learn new things.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
After nine years as a courier driver I'm now entered into the
security field as a dispatcher. My better half, Brenda, is back in
school to become part of the culinary world.
We're struggling, but truthfully we're together and making it. Our
girls are doing well in school and our friends are growing along
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing and singing. I can sing anything for Al Green to Phil
Collins. Now, if I could find a group or method to do so and get
out of the shower it would be a good thing. But just so you know
others think I sing pretty well.
I'm an info geek big time! I love to find out things about the
world and life via the computer and books. I think learning is the
greatest strength in the world.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Him: You're REALLY tall! You're really bald and tall!
Bren: You REALLY like Dave Mathews.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Harry Potter Series, The Anita Blake Vampire Hunter Series,
This Present Darkness, Wisdom Hunter, and books by Randy Shilts.
Also, enjoy books on erotica and non-fiction books too.
Movies: Where do I begin? My favorite all time is Schindler's List!
We also love the Matrix, LOTR, Harry Potter, James Bond, lots fo
comedies, drama, thrillers (Hitchcock), etc. to measure. One of my
favorite movies I enjoy the most is "Enter the Void". One of the
most provocative movies I've ever seen. The opening scene may cause
seizures to the faint of hard, but truthfully a very artful movie.
One of my favorite documentaries is "Lord Save Us From Your
Followers". Really breaks down the whole faith issues.
Music: From the 50s to the present (so long as people who can make
music with instruments can make music is a priority) we enjoy it.
Loves dance music, enjoy Goth and Hard Rock,etc. Not a huge country
fan, but respect good writing and talent. Gospel and CCM too (not
the current crop, the old kind).
Travel: Give us the money and means we'll find a way to get there.
Right now we're hoping to somehow visit some bed and breakfast
close to home or in the tri state area.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Ed:Peanut Butter, the computer, Stephanie Miller, Rachel
Maddow,soccer, and friends (I would say sex only as the last part
because sex doesn't make the world go round, but it does make it
Bren: Nature, music, animals, art, friends, and family.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be a better father to my daughter and how I can truly become
the writer/singer I want to be. Plus, I also would like to learn
how to be a better person to the one I really love (Bren).
Also think about how life has changed so much in 40 years. It
seemed so simple without the blogs, twitter, computer, etc. We had
to talk to each other personally; we had to call in phone booths
and actually talk to each other at dinner tables. There was no need
to eat out but we had to cook at home so we can all sit at the
dinner table to eat. Plus, I miss game night with the family. I
don't know about others, but I remember playing Trouble, King's in
the Corner, or Dominos till 3am on the weekend during a hot summer
For Bren, she's disgusted how developed everything in her home town
of Beavercreek. She told me how she'd bike across farm fields and
neighborhoods before they turned it into condos, malls, and strip
I guess we think about the not yet. What will this world looks like
or become after we are old and gray? Will we enjoy nature, animals
and our environment or will we be struggling to get a breath of
air? God only knows.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Lately its work. Wish we can run and go out for a night on the
town, but right now just trying to keep our head above water.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a HUGE soccer fan. Got season tickets to the Columbus Crew,
enjoy watching it on TV, and can come to Columbus to maybe check
out the bars that love soccer too.
You should message me if
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You are intelligent, thoughtful, open to conversation, enjoy
laughter, have a kinky side to you, enjoy talk about sexuality
without the need to have to be sexually active, and not be afraid
to bring up any subject. Good conversation starts when you know you
can be comfortable with the persons around you.
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