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Ed_Kaitz

61 Baltimore, MD Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 46–66
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:09am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi, thanks for checking me out. I am a 58 year old Caucasian male of Russian Judaic ancestry, but I am a humanist now.

oooh boy, what challenging times we are living in. I pray for all children and their children to come !

Let us all at least strive for inner peace acceptance and self love, no matter how weird, evil or horrible the externals get. So sad for kids having no chance at all...

on another note, I now proclaim the complete and utter future fulfillment of my "Soulmate" search. It is done and finished, we know and love each other completely and deeply, just not quite yet in the present time/space continuum. Thank you Great Divine Cosmos for this realization !

Relationships have to stand the test of time...no matter what we say here......

I am a Continuum I feel, between opposites, and am changing becoming a new version of myself, the road I am on is the one I did NOT travel previously. I am a musician deep in my soul, but now am also seeking to find a place in the world for creating a better future for those to come, through advocacy. That part is a new beginning, but I, like so many, know that for the world to become a healthy tomorrow, we must build healthier today.

My preference is to date a woman who can FEEL music in her whole body, hips, backbone, feet, legs. But if not, just a woman who loves music.

I do not want to date a woman who is pro-military ( I am not anti military, I just do not support the USA being violent overseas when we have so many grassroots problems.) If you need to travel internationally on a regular basis, we are not a good fit. If you drink more than socially....I do not want any alcoholics, addicts or smokers to date. Thanks.

Update, Dec. 16, 2014: A woman associate who saw my profile recommended I say something about the fact that I am 58, have not been married and do not have children. I UNDERSTAND this is a red flag for many women !

A brief explanation: I was born into a very repressive and dysfunctional family, suffered abandonment and multiple sexual abuse/rape in early childhood. My Soul was forced to black out these experiences for a very long time. It took me many many more years to work through these memories.

So I did NOT have a conventional 20s - 40s with a full career and a family and children, there was too much to deal with and uncover, and heal from.

In lieu of that I explored a lot of stuff, worked in the publications industry for 6 years, studied and played therapeutic oriented music in nursing homes for 12 years parttime, played as a children's musician for 2 years, started a monthly journal featuring the artwork and writings of local persons with chronic mental health problems that got distributed throughout Maryland and made the library of the American Visionary Art Museum, have taught harmonica lessons for 18 years, relearned to read music, volunteered with cats in animal shelters, put out 2 CDs, sold art periodically for 10 years through Sideshow at the American Visionary Art Museum, had 3 solo art shows, 2 in Baltimore, one in Gettysburg, PA, and been in multiple group shows.

My major goals now are to contribute with my skills in music the arts and teaching and with what wisdom I have gained to the younger generations, and to help lay better foundations for them to come, to keep rewriting myself into a more universal and mature human being, to have more simple joys, to enjoy what I already have, to be ok with releasing things I am done with, to forgive myself when I can't so I can also forgive others, to keep aware of the great work that is being done here and elsewhere by those who do not give in to the powers that control and manipulate us.

I like to walk in nature, cook together, watch independent movies. I LOVE stand up comedy, but mostly on Netflix, I love WPFW, WEAA, Mark Steiner, AMy Goodman, Garrison Keillor.

Music I love SO MUCH! I love Bach, Mozart, I love the Beatles and all that classic rock, I love blues, Muddy, Little Walter, I love jazz, fusion, Coltrane, Miles, Herbie Hancock, I love James Brown, Stevie Wonder, oh my God, I could go on and on.

I read some New Age style metaphysics, I like alternate or "hidden" history, ancient history, I like poetry. In my next life I will learn many different languages, I kind of regret not knowing that now, though I can communicate fairly well at a high school level ? in Spanish.

I studied Buddhism here in Baltimore, in a sangha for two years, was part of the Inspiration Community for 2 years, use Medicine cards at times, and have experimented with a number of forms of meditation. Now I mainly like to sing as my spiritual practice, I guess, but I do need quiet time sometimes..

Thanks for checking me out. Best, EdI
What I’m doing with my life
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trying to live a balanced, whole adult life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Drawing, Singing, Harmonica playing, Imagination, Meditation, Listening, Painting, dancing, having an eccentric sometimes Noir humor
The first things people usually notice about me
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I think this varies. You will have to decide.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music: Endless supply, endless love: Some favorite old school: Little Walter, James Brown, Stevie Wonder, Jimi Hendrix, Cream, Led Zeppelin, Arthur Brown,..new school: John Mayer, Ben Harper, Ben Folds, Robert Randolph, Susan Tedescki and Derek Trucks, Jack White.

Books: Authors - Carl Jung, Eckart Tolle, Other writers on depth Psychology, Native American Spiritual lit, Sound Healing literature, more

Foods: Dark Chocolate, good coffee, grains, avocados, lots more
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Being Here and Now, Other Beings, Music, Beauty, Singing, the Earth
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How not to think so much
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
live music, or at art show, or out dancing, or at home chilling
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Sorry, Im not.
You should message me if
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you like what I say, Are a physically fit, not exceedingly overweight, individualistic woman with body rhythm, who likes music and art, with a good, perhaps wicked sense of humor, are Spiritual and intellectually curious, and are within 50 miies of baltimre, md