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61 Baltimore, MD Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 46–66
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 16
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Not at all
Other, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Hi, thanks for checking me out. I am a 58 year old Caucasian male of Russian Judaic ancestry, but I am a humanist now.

I now proclaim the complete and utter future fulfillment of my "Soulmate" search. It is done and finished, we know and love each other completely and deeply, just not quite yet in the present time/space continuum. Thank you Great Divine Cosmos for this realization !

Relationships have to stand the test of matter what we say here......

I am a Continuum I feel, between a Creative homebody, and a Performing Musician. My art studio is in my home, and when I teach music lessons it is here too, so that is part of my being a homebody. Also, I enjoy some solitude and also I enjoy House and yard maintenance and improvement.

When I perform, my preference is small venues, not big rock venues or large festivals. I have not performed at the Charles Village festival or the Belvedere Square festivals but I like those sometimes to dance at or attend. Larger festivals like Artscape just are not my cup of tea and I do not think I would ever attend a4th of July down in Wash. DC. I like small jazz clubs and jams.

My preference is to date a woman who can FEEL music in her whole body, hips, backbone, feet, legs. I am just a novice dancer, but I am an accomplished Blues Harmonica player and sing, and I FEEL MUSIC. I LOVE Lexington Market live music jams here in Baltimore. If you do not ACTIVELY LISTEN TO, PLAY, OR MOVE TO, rhythmic music, then that is a lot we do NOT have in common.

I do not want to date a woman who is pro-military ( I am not anti military, I just do not support the USA being violent overseas when we have so many grassroots problems.) If you need to travel internationally on a regular basis, we are not a good fit. If you drink more than socially....I do not want any alcoholics, addicts or smokers to date. Thanks.

Update, Dec. 16, 2014: A woman associate who saw my profile recommended I say something about the fact that I am 58, have not been married and do not have children. I UNDERSTAND this is a red flag for many women !

A brief explanation: I was born into a very repressive and dysfunctional family, suffered abandonment and multiple sexual abuse/rape in early childhood. My Soul was forced to black out these experiences for a very long time. It took me many many more years to work through these memories.

So I did NOT have a conventional 20s - 40s with a full career and a family and children, there was too much to deal with and uncover, and heal from.

Having gone through all that, after many years I have healed from it, and have mostly made my way as an artist, musician, and community educator.

One more observation: I am NOT trying to show that I was victimized or show my wounds ("woundology"). I am a Loving, fairly Whole, Gifted and Great human being. And any woman who blows me off because of my past, now that the account is here, just DOES NOT DESERVE ME.

My major goals are to learn, Be Here Now, relax, dance, play jazz, swing, funk r n b, and blues music, share times of pleasure, relaxation, conversation with a loving friend, and do ink drawings and paint, and mixed media art and pottery, and work around the house developing my skills in plumbing, electrical, electronics, carpentry, drywall etc, and gardening of course, of course , and traveling visiting art museums, and gardens.

I like to walk in nature, cook together, watch independent movies. I LOVE stand up comedy, but mostly on Netflix..

Each day I live I try, sometimes very successfully, sometimes averagely, to give something back, even if just a smile or opening a door for a senior. I have done a fair amount of service work professionally in the past including playing music for groups and room to room in nursing homes, volunteering at BARCS and other animal shelters.

Thanks for checking me out. Best, EdI
What I’m doing with my life
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trying to live a balanced, whole adult life.
I’m really good at
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Drawing, Singing, Harmonica playing, Imagination, Meditation, Listening, Painting, dancing, having an eccentric sometimes Noir humor
The first things people usually notice about me
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I think this varies. You will have to decide.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music: Endless supply, endless love: Some favorite old school: Little Walter, James Brown, Stevie Wonder, Jimi Hendrix, Cream, Led Zeppelin, Arthur Brown, school: John Mayer, Ben Harper, Ben Folds, Robert Randolph, Susan Tedescki and Derek Trucks, Jack White.

Books: Authors - Carl Jung, Eckart Tolle, Other writers on depth Psychology, Native American Spiritual lit, Sound Healing literature, more

Foods: Dark Chocolate, good coffee, grains, avocados, lots more
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Being Here and Now, Other Beings, Music, Beauty, Singing, the Earth
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How not to think so much
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
live music, or at art show, or out dancing, or at home chilling
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Sorry, Im not.
You should message me if
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you like what I say, Are a physically fit, not exceedingly overweight, individualistic woman with body rhythm, who likes music and art, with a good, perhaps wicked sense of humor, are Spiritual and intellectually curious, and are within 50 miies of baltimre, md