Hello hello hello. I like listening to music, watching movies, reading books, watching and playing sports, following politics, and exercising. I consider myself a spontaneous person. I'm very laid back and down to earth. I'm a great listener and pretty much the coolest person ever in the world (Conceited?) lol. Oh and apparently I took a test on okcupid and it said that I was "the gentle dancer". The gentle dancer means that I am a soft trusting kind of guy and that my sexual energy increases throughout time.

Personally, I think that my sexual energy is alright the way it is. But if it does increase over time, awesome. Looks like no Viagra for me.

Right now I am fixing up an apartment that I am going to be moving into very soon. I have painted most of it, got new furniture and will soon buy new carpeting. The things I do just to keep living in New York City.

I am also learning to speak Spanish via Rosetta Stone. I took Spanish for like 6 years in High School and College but still have yet to speak it fluently.

Working well under pressure.

I am the kind of guy that did 10 page papers in like 3 hours before they were due.

I was stranded in Ireland one time with a friend of mine. He made us late to the airport and we missed our flight. All I had on me was an ATM card and I didn't even know if it would work. It didn't at first, but then it did for some reason. We got home that night.

Another time, I had a rental car and someone hit my back bumper. I was in an area that I didn't really know. I had 3 days to get it fixed before I had to give the car back to the rental company. I found a guy that would replace the bumper for me and I would have the car back that same day.

I'm also very disciplined. Once I have a goal, it is very difficult to stop me.

I was at this picnic and they were giving away like awesome prizes for the winners of little contests. These prizes were like televisions and video games, electronics like that. One of the events was an ice cream eating contest. What you had to do was eat a pint of ice cream as quickly as possible with no hands. I never did that before. The first few seconds I realized how to eat the ice cream without gagging or feeling sick. I won a television that I used at college.

Another example was what I did last summer. I was working 40 hours a week while writing 20 page papers each week and working out every weekday after work. I did that routine all summer long. It was the most accomplishing and grueling summer ever.

Girls have said to me that I am a great kisser. I don't know if that is true or if they were just being nice. But I never got any complaints when it came to that.

I think that I'm funny. Now I have to prove it to you because I said that statement. Here is one of my favorite jokes:

Three men are walking in a desert when they spot a tent. All three men rush over to the tent for shade and when they enter the tent they are shocked to see hundreds of beautiful women. The three men start talking to the women when suddenly a sheik comes in with bodyguards yelling WHO HAS DESECRATED MY WOMEN! The bodyguards find the three men and the sheik proclaims that he will punish them based on their profession. The sheik asks the first man what is his profession and the man says I am a policeman and the sheik takes a gun and shoots the policeman's penis right off. The sheik then asks the second man what his profession is and the man says I am a fireman and the sheik takes a flamethrower and burns the fireman's penis right off. Finally, the sheik goes up to the third man and asks what his profession is. The man smiles and says I am a lollipop salesman.

lol i love it.

I just asked a few of my friends.

One of my friends said "Your eyes. I absolutely love your eyes. They're all brown and poopy"

My mother said "You have a smile that lights up the room"

And one of my enemies said "You're an asshole. Whenever we argue about something you always have to win"

I hope that helps.

If I had to guess I think that the first thing people usually notice about me is that I am a tall man. I am 6'2. Whenever I see people taller than me I freak out.

My favorite books are the outsiders; sex, drugs and cocoa puffs; choke; survivor; etc.

My favorite movie ever is Vanilla Sky with Tom Cruise. Other favorites are Amelie, Pulp Fiction, Fight Club, Donnie Darko, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, oh and this french film called Love me if you dare. That is quite possibly the best chick flick I have ever seen.

My music collection is huge. It ranges from classic rock, rock, R&B, some old rap, and techno for workout purposes.

I don't listen to country music or hardcore screaming rock music.

My favorite food...hmmmm probably pasta...I could definitely live off of pasta...as far as a meal is concerned though...penne a la vodka...amazing.

Oxygen, love, sleep, honesty, relaxation, and music.

so many philosophical questions like what is the meaning of life, why are we here, and what happened to my sock in the drier?

I think about whether or not this site really is a good thing or a bad thing. I was talking to someone a few days ago and they were telling me how their mother went on a paid dating site and she found a multi-millionaire. I feel like those paid sites are legal prostitution. Think about it. You are paying so that you can be connected to someone and possibly have intimate relations with them. Sounds like prostitution. Those sites are pimps.

I think about what I want to do with my life. There are so many things I love and want to do. I don't want to be that guy in his 30s that is singing along to "Once in A Lifetime" by the Talking Heads.

And you may find yourself living in a shotgun shack
And you may find yourself in another part of the world
And you may find yourself behind the wheel of a large automobile
And you may find yourself in a beautiful house, with a beautiful
Wife
And you may ask yourself-well...how did I get here?

I want to be the guy that loves what he does. The guy that has a great woman next to him and everyday he wakes up he is happy. I hope one day I can have that.

There is no typical Friday night. Last Friday night I was painting, the Friday night before that I was at the gym working out, the Friday night before that I was in upstate New York hanging with friends, the Friday night before that I was...hmmm...I don't remember. Well that is good enough I suppose.

My life is an open book. What you see is what you get. I don't really have anything private. Ask me anything.

If you want to hear embarrassing moments...well here are a few.

One time I was working as a camp counselor and we were at a hotel. My boss walks in on me when I just was about to get in the shower and I was completely naked. My boss saw everything.

Another time when I was a kid I was feeding the ducks by a pond. I was giving them pieces of my bagel and then I got hungry and ate a little bit of it as well. The ducks didn't like that. Suddenly, they started attacking me and I was running away from them but they were flying at me and such. Eventually, they had me cornered and I had to give up the bagel.

Ok, this is the last embarrassing story. My friends and I were playing truth or dare outside and I always picked dare. My friend dared me to hump a fire hydrant while saying "I'm a pony" 10 times really loud. So I did it and a flamboyant Asian man came up to me and started to hit on me. Ridiculous.

You want to get to know me. I try not to be judgmental and I do keep an open mind about people. I am looking for a girl that is independent, has respect for herself and others, drama free, and knows what she wants out of life.