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Eden81

28 / F / straight / Single

Westville, New Jersey

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Rather Not Say
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am sweet, loveable, and naughty.

My Self-Summary

I'm not your typical girly-girl, but I don't consider myself boyish by any means. I rarely wear make-up, unless I am going out for the night. I own a lot of clothes, but don't take hours deciding what to wear. I don't mind getting dirty, and I especially love the outdoors. I find those little habits men have that make most girls whine and complain quite amusing and endearing. NOTE TO ALL THE FEMALES OUT THERE, WHO CARES HOW MANY GIRLS YOUR MAN LOOKS AT WHEN YOU ARE OUT WITH HIM...HE'S STILL GOING HOME WITH YOU, ISN'T HE??? I tend to get along better with males than with most females and have often been considered "just one of the guys." I am an outgoing girl, trapped in a shy girl's body. I'm usually shy when I 1st meet people, but once I get comfortable around you I can be quite fun and interesting. I'm a realist. I don't always look on the bright side, but I don't think life is so horrible. I see most things for what they are...good or bad. I love life. I think too many people take the little things in life for granted...a smile from a stranger, children laughing, the warmth of the sun on your skin...I could go on forever. It's the little things that make life so interesting. If you want to know more, just ask...

What I’m doing with my life

Spending every moment I can with my beautiful daughter Autumn Elizabeth...born June 8, 2009...getting used to being a mom for the 1st time and loving every moment of it.

I’m really good at

I have amazing people skills. I can be very charming when I want to (my friends say I have that "Jersey charm" that people can't resist) and I am very adept with dealing with all different types of people. I'm also a rather good writer, when the mood strikes me to actually pick up a pen and put my thoughts down on paper.

The first things people usually notice about me

Depends on who you ask...physically the average person notices my eyes or hair 1st, although many men notice my breasts 1st. Personality wise, most people either notice how smart I am or how sweet and caring I can be.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

a) anything by Stephen King or Sidney Sheldon...anything with a good story...I am a big fan of mystery or crime novels...I hate to admit I love a good romance...and I am known to read the occasional erotic fiction novel when the mood strikes me.

b) Shawshank Redemption, Forrest Gump, Dead Poets Society, O Brother Where Art Thou, Something's Got to Give and many more ... a good movie should make you laugh or cry...a great one makes you do both...I will watch almost anything with Jack Nicholson or Nicholas Cage...or Morgan Freeman in it.

c) anything and everything...rock, classical, country, pop, r&b, soul, jazz, classic rock, etc...the list goes on and on

d) I am a big fan of Italian, Hispanic, and Chinese food. I am a lover of food over all. I will try to eat almost anything at least once. I am not a picky eater at all.

The six things I could never do without

1. love

2. laughter

3. companionship

4. sight

5. hearing

6. touch

I spend a lot of time thinking about

people...relationships...life

On a typical Friday night I am

Working. Or working. Hmmm...probably working.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I often miss out on experiencing things in my life because of my fear of failure. I'm one of those people who believes if I don't try something I can't fail at it. This is the quality I possess which I dislike the most and hope to make strides at eliminating it.

You should message me if

You want to have an interesting conversation... Or if you are smart enough to realize a girl with blond hair and a big chest can still be intelligent. Or if you have an intersting story to share...or would like to hear one... I love talking to all different kinds of people, about all different kinds of things.