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29 F Philadelphia, PA

My Details

Last Online
Jun 30
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Christianity, and laughing about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Most days I am a city dwelling political junkie with a short attention span and endless energy. I love the perfect song for the moment, books with worn spines and Irish whiskey.

Also, bisexual is a terrible term.

I have a whole myriad of strange interests. Inquire within for more information. ....

So I am poly/open/ethically non-monogamous. (whatever term you like to use for it) I have a wonderful partner KaninRail and we are disgustingly in love with each other but always open to whatever interesting people come in and out of our lives.
What I’m doing with my life
Walking around the city trying to find new murals that I haven't seen yet then drinking a beer while I stare at them trying to sort out my place in the world.

but most of the time I bounce around the non-profit arts and music scene finding new ways to have a good time and learn something interesting.
I’m really good at
convincing people to dance when they don't want to, laying in the park with an iced tea and a book, predicting someone's politics by looking at them, kicking it into high gear when shit needs to be accomplished, the internet (I shouldn't be proud of that but I am)
The first things people usually notice about me
did that redhead just trip over her own feet?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

Hunter S Thompson, Neil Gaimen, Virginia Woolf, George R.R. Martin, J.R. Tolkien, Frank Miller, David Foster Wallace, Noam Chomsky, Alan Moore, Grant Morrison, Gabriel Garcia Marquez,. William Carlos Williams, Audre Lorde, Shel Silverstein, Pablo Neruda, Jane Austen, Junot Diaz, Howard Zinn

Anything Aaron Sorkin (West Wing, Sportsnight, Studio 60), Mad Men, Community, Parks and Rec


Rodrigo Y Gabriela, Common, The Roots, Passion Pit, Mary J Blige, MGMT, Slutever, Yo La Tengo, Scissor Sisters, Rye Rye, Ani Difranco, Beach House, Sage Francis, Beyonce, Chill Moody, Girl Talk, Aesop Rock, The Raincoats, Robyn

I like all the musics.

I love all food but there is a special place in my heart for Tacos and Pho.
The six things I could never do without
Never is a really strong word and if I couldn't ACTUALLY live without one of these things, that would be pretty sad and I would have lived an incredibly privileged existence.

Macallan Single Malt
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Do I want to go to law school or do I want to blow bubbles in the park? Where did I put my keys? I love this song! I need to leave Philadelphia, I have been here forever but what if I hate somewhere else? Fuck! I forgot to feed the animals. I need falafel. I don't know why people are so cynical about Ewoks, the Rebellion would have failed without the Ewoks.
On a typical Friday night I am
rocking out at whatever show I couldn't miss. playing pool and drinking beer at a bar. playing board games and drinking beer with my roommates.'s really a toss up.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
When I am alone in my house I talk to my animals about my day. It's not creepy because I don't expect them to talk back.


oh yeah, I am kinky as all get out. If you are too, great. If not, that's fine as well. It's probably best not to make too many assumptions about this and just ask questions if you have them.

Also, if you are thinking about sending me a message that implies you want to have sex with me in the first 10 words or makes a mockery of the English language, just don't. I won't reply, I will delete and block you. Mediocrity becomes no one.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
you need someone to go with you to see (insert band here)

You want to drink scotch and argue about social justice or which Teenager Mutant Ninja Turtle remake is superior.

or adventures.