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30 Philadelphia, PA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 4:50pm
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Christianity and laughing about it
Doesn’t want kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Most days I am a city dwelling political junkie with a short attention span and endless energy. I love the perfect song for the moment, books with worn spines and Irish whiskey.

Strange and deviant activities always perk my attention. If you come kinky, sex positive and feminist identified then you have come correct.

I am a poly nerd. I have a wonderful partner but I am always looking for strange and interesting people to go out and have adventures with.

Also, extra points to anyone who will play MTG with me without judgement.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working a 9-5 and making the most of all the time left over.

Discovering all the hikes you can go on without leaving the city.

Willing all of my veggies in the garden to grow big and strong.

Reading on my porch.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
convincing people to dance when they don't want to.

laying in the park with an iced tea and a book.

predicting someone's politics by looking at them.

kicking it into high gear when shit needs to be accomplished.

the internet (I shouldn't be proud of that but I am)

Ranting about intersectional feminism, sex positivity and the ways that BDSM, fetish and kink are portrayed by the mainstream media.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
did that redhead just trip over her own feet?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.

Hunter S Thompson, Neil Gaimen, Chimananda Ngozi Adiche, Virginia Woolf, George R.R. Martin, J.R. Tolkien, Frank Miller, David Foster Wallace, Noam Chomsky, Alan Moore, Grant Morrison, Gabriel Garcia Marquez,. William Carlos Williams, Audre Lorde, Shel Silverstein, Junot Diaz, Howard Zinn

Let's just say I watch a lot of television. I should also warn you that I am one of those people that thinks The Wire was the greatest story ever told.

Also, I am an Aaron Sorkin fangirl.


Beyonce, Saul Williams, A Tribe Called Quest, Old Crow Medicine Show, Mary J Blige, Kendrick Lamar, Slutever, Yo La Tengo, Scissor Sisters, Rye Rye, Ani Difranco, Nicki Minaj, Beach House, Sage Francis, Chill Moody, Girl Talk, Aesop Rock, The Raincoats, Robyn

I like all the musics.

I love all food but there is a special place in my heart for Asian noodle soups.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Never is a really strong word but this is a list of things I am really glad exist and would be very sad if they disappeared

Stuff You Missed in History Class/Stuff Mom Never Told You
Macallan Single Malt
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Do I want to focus on being an adult or do I want to blow bubbles in the park? Where did I put my keys? I love this song! I need to leave Philadelphia, I have been here forever but what if I hate somewhere else? Fuck! I forgot to feed the animals. I need falafel. I don't know why people are so cynical about Ewoks, the Rebellion would have failed without the Ewoks.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Engaging in strange and deviant underworlds

or sitting at home and playing board/video games with my awesome boyfriend.'s really a toss up.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I am alone in my house I talk to my animals about my day. It's not creepy because I don't expect them to talk back.

I am almost always thinking about sex.

Also, please don't think that means I want you to send me messages that solicit me in the first ten words or makes a mockery of the English language, just don't. I won't reply, I will delete and block you. Mediocrity becomes no one.
You should message me if
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you need someone to go with you to see (insert band here)

You want to drink scotch and argue about social justice or which ninja turtle we most identify with. (For me it is always Raph)

or adventures.

But really, Magic: The Gathering.