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25 Indianapolis, IN Cis Man

Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 22–35
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 12:41pm
Queer, Sapiosexual
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Dropped out of space camp
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Hello. I am on the southside. I'm a butcher that works with happy meats using seam butchery. I also produce delicious meat stuff, think salami. I like to think that I focus on quality over quantity in my work. This is also true in my other pursuits.

I ride a red lugged steel bike (even though I'm colorblind to red; my brain still fills in the gap and gives me what I perceive to be red) and get hit by cars bit too often for my liking. I always make sure that I have at least one book with me at all time. If I make a trip to somewhere more than two hours away, I up the number to four-ish books, just to be safe.

I've been told that I have a nice sense of humor, ranging from dry to absurd to dark. Once, a guy slashed his wrist while butchering a side of hog. He sprayed a bit of blood. I giggled.

I took Kurt Vonnegut's advice to be kind and so far, the results has been ok. When strangers on the street ask me for directions, I nod and pretend to understand. I then point them toward a random direction, just to inspire them with confidence. They will find their Destination.

I'm d/Deaf. This leads to me being a visual and tactile person, with different sensory inputs such as 180 degree peripheral vision and feeling sounds through my feet. Being a solidly visual person also means that I communicate via visual means, usually Sign Language or Written English, but I've been pulling out gestures more often nowadays.

I look masculine, scruff and all. But I'm not concerned about keeping my interests and behavior masculine. I mean I do throw around logs, cut a lot of meats, and drink beers with bourbon. But I also bake cookies and giggle.

Far as I am concerned, there is no difference between cyberspace and meatspace in terms of richness in relationships.
What I’m doing with my life
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Viciously attacking honeysuckle bushes and marveling at the amount of biomass they have and also deny under them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Currently reading: The Teachings of Don Juan, A Thousand Plateaus, Coming to Our Senses, and Sorcery

Recent things that I've consumed:
The Reenchantment of the World
Cosmic Trigger (nonfiction... or is it?)
The Ignorant Schoolmaster (critical)
Open Your Eyes (nonfiction)
delicious sandwiches (food)
Hannibal (TV show)
Shop Class as Soulcraft (nonfiction)
The Omnivore's Dilemma (nonfiction)

Things that I really like:
The Diamond Age (post-cyberpunk novel)
Mad Men (TV show)
Star Trek: TNG (TV show)
The Venture Brothers (TV show)
The Mind of a Chef (TV show)
Building Stories (comics)
Asterios Polyp (comic)
The Death-Ray (comic)
No Country for Old Men (movie)
The Spirit Catches You and You Fall Down (Medical Anthropology)
Understanding Deaf Culture: In Search of Deafhood (deaf studies)
Civilwarland in Bad Decline (short stories)
East of Eden (novel)
The Life and Death of Great American Cities (urban planning book)
The Wire (TV show)

I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The current Big Three things I'm thinking about:
neurodiversity, permaculture, and consciousness.

Sometimes my mind wanders over those topics:
Deaf Studies, Information and Knowledge, comics, nature, cultures, Deaf culture, cooking, communication, language, and cultural barriers, books, TV shows, food, languages, delicious salads, history of Indianapolis, history of I-65, bikes, stuff that I don't know, USA and World news, where food comes from, anthropology, medical anthropology, urban planning, posthumanism.

Also, I think about words have been showing up often. Current curious recurring word of month: kaleidoscopic.

"Given the kaleidoscopic characters of the self, only a few facet will ever be lived. This incompleteness is part of the existential tragedy, but the more that can be lived, the richer one's life will be." - an epigraph to The Manufactured History of Indianapolis.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Reading, trees, and making delicious sammiches- seriously, I grill both sides of the bread slices for the double crunchiness.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When I was a boy, I had an invisible friend that I argued with.

And I blow my nose loudly.
You should message me if
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You're different (strange, queer, deaf, marginalized, etc.).

I'm great with shy people, don't be shy, yo.