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32 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:34pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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I graduated from law school a few years back and work as an attorney in midtown. Basically, that means I've done a lot of talking/arguing over the last 5 years. I like people who know they are amazing while still being grounded. I always strike up conversations with strangers - restaurant owners/bartenders/random people at social/charity events - if that type of thing social thing embarrasses you, you're not for me. What can I say, I am a talker and I love meeting new people - you have to be able to "work" a room with me. I do have a spontaneous/crazy side (like stopping you mid sentence to plant a kiss on your lips or jumping on a plane to go somewhere warm)... I'm not in the nightlife scene 24/7..., but I do like a nice lounge. I eat healthy, but I always crave pizza. I get down to Florida often because palm trees and the bright sun are amazing. I'm into Breaking Bad, Mad Men, House of Cards, Game of Thrones.

I hit the gym 3-4 days a week and I try to swim laps as often as I can. Playing a little volleyball for the summer too.. I'm a busy person (besides law, I do real estate and also some volunteer work) - but I always make time for the people that matter in my life (family is really important to me). Law is my second career, was originally going for my PHD in psychology. I have a lot of depth and I surround myself with amazing people who also have a lot of depth (I can talk about really intellectual topics - or really light and fun ones... we'll see where the convo goes)... Love to travel, especially to places with ocean beaches and sun. Also love art/museums, live music, volleyball and tennis.

If all of this has you rolling your eyes, don't worry, I also steal people's taxis, cheat at board games and am generally a jerk, but you'll definitely still like me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Secret Agent. Let's run a mission together.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making toasts, like at weddings... making the first move... making people feel at ease (so... don't be nervous if we meet, I'll just end up teasing you about it).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Posture, handshake and eye contact.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Ask. But, would rather talk about something more interesting.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
It's been brought to my attention that multiple guys have copied parts of my profile verbatim. It's a compliment.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not at all private.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are amazingly confident (you make eye contact when speaking to people), feminine (should be self-explanatory), healthy (you hit the gym/stay active/eat well), classy (you're charming in social situations) deep (intellectual and emotional depth), playful and affectionate (this one is important to me). Your career is maybe nothing like mine (I can tell you why I love law and you can tell me why you love... ___ ). You never describe yourself as "normal", but rather exceptional. I'm not into shyness, gold diggers or typical nyc superficiality. Not into large tattoo's either- you shouldn't put a bumper sticker on a Ferrari.

I don't mind high maintenance, but be a little grounded please. I've dated many types of women over the years and an amazing person impresses me a lot more than amazing looks. You don't have to be americas next top model to message me, but if you are, you're going to have to show me that you're not crazy. Usually get along with non-native nyc women better, but won't hold it against you if you're from manhattan.

If your profile has a Sex in the City, Marilyn Monroe or Coco Chanel quote, I might dock you 2 points.

If you're the type of girl who is insecure that I have female friends in my social circle (like for example, sending me hate mail that I should not have any pictures with girls in them), then you're not for me- this just tells me you have a self esteem issue. I'm loyal in relationships, but I do have female friends.

If I don't message you back, don't take it personally (or send me more hate mail)... I'm sure you're a great person, but not what I'm looking for.

Because this is a thing: IG: EFCLS