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Edwin_nl

42 / M / Bisexual / Single

Utrecht, Netherlands

His Details

Last Online
Jun 5
Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Dislikes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), German (Poorly), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am creative, open-minded, and quiet.

My test results are more accurate than my personality traits. I'm proud of my scores in The Would You Have Been a Nazi Test (Der Resistance) and The How Much You Know About Women Test (93%). Although I seem to be an 'ardent atheist', I do worship the gods Sarasvati, Dionysus, and Eris (Discordia). My personality type is INTP: introvert, intuitive, thinker, perceiver - or in the words of another test: Pure Nerd.
What I’m doing with my life
My day job is translating software from English to Dutch. In my spare time, I like to ride my bicycle, do some home improvement, or go out to a movie/concert/museum, but usually I'll be at my computer again, twittering, reading webcomics, commenting at Fmylife or Fetlife, or moderating a forum about bisexuality.

I spend more time reading the TV guide than watching TV. And I spend more time inventing or modifying board games and card games than playing them. I like to work on long-term projects, one of which led to publishing a non-fiction book in 2011. In 2012, I'd like to do some teaching and write another book.

I don't like the hassle of travel - I prefer getting to know other cultures by reading about them. Exotic pictures don't impress me; if you need to visit some ruins on the other side of the world in order to do something interesting, you must be a boring person.
I’m really good at
Writing, editing, kissing, making inappropriate jokes, making people think I'm arrogant when I'm being shy.
The first things people usually notice about me
My big forehead and my glasses, I guess, which make me look more intelligent than I really am. (I missed a chance to take the Mensa IQ test because I forgot to wire the money.) After a few minutes people tend to notice that I am able to close my mouth. It seems to be a rare talent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
History, Arthouse, TBBT, Indie, Curry.

Yeah, I could expand on that, but I don't believe in matching by taste. I want to meet an interesting person with a compatible character. Having a different taste might just make you more interesting. I love it when a girl is passionate about a quirky hobby. I would enjoy watching you embroider zombie crocodile porn.
The six things I could never do without
As Epicurus said: "The wealth required by nature is limited and is easy to procure, but the wealth required by vain ideals extends to infinity." I would miss music, bicycles, books and the internet if they didn't exist, but not as much as I am missing love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- What kind of work I'm going to do in the upcoming days, because plans keep changing.

- How to keep in touch with friends.

- The spirituality of sex. Having sex is not just fun (playing video games would be easier), it makes me feel alive, it's what connects me to all of humanity and the tree of life.

- I like to debate political issues, without taking them seriously. That's the advantage of being a cold-hearted, baby-eating libertarian: we don't need politics, on the contrary, we want to get rid of it.
On a typical Friday night I am
The only typical thing about my week is that I sleep late on Saturdays.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
- I enjoy both cuddling and kinky sex, with not much vanilla sex in between.

- I'm in love with Amy Farrah Fowler.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–47
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
- our match score is higher than our friend score
- you like the taste of beer :)