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Efbug

44 F Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Dec 23, 2013
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Pisces
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Intensity and complexity, but not drama. Spirituality and truth, but not new age freakishness. How does one sum up a whole being? I am Intelligent, funny, active, creative, vital, spiritual, passionate. I love to travel, dance, play and love. I have an adventurous spirit and curious mind. Feisty ... what can I say?
What I’m doing with my life
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Being sassy and joyful and funny and curious and alive and human. Making things, making people laugh and feel good, making mistakes, making the world a little bit better.

Dancing!

Seeing the beauty.

I am passionate about connecting with people who feel disconnected; about those moments with a good friend or a stranger when you feel seen, or when you really see another.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
20 minute, impromptu after dinner before bedtime dance parties, laughing, sharing delicious food (especially dessert), listening, spontaneity and making people smile.
The first things people usually notice about me
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You tell me!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love to read, and to see performance art and music and food!

I don't have a television.

I love to get lost in story, so I love movies - of all kinds, really. I especially love documentaries about people. Lars and The Real Girl is a favorite, Wings of Desire, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, 7 Pounds.

I love a good book, and I tend to like autobiographies and memoir a lot. Recently I read Patti Smith's autobiography "Just Kids" and loved that.

LOVE FOOD! I eat almost anything and have traveled a fair amount, so have been a pretty adventurous eater. I think Ethiopian is my favorite, but I love all kinds.

I have very eclectic taste in music: everything from opera to hip hop to country (alternative -the good kind!) and I live discovering new music.

I love performance art. I love to see experimental things especially. I have done some of this myself.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love
Gratitude
Family and friends
Art and creativity
Sharing ideas and personal evolutions
Dance
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be of service to the world. How to let things be just as they are.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
charming and witty.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
(blush)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 32–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
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You're funny and smart, have an open heart, a generous spirit, and something moves you to do so.