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30 F Philadelphia, PA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 17
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
I'm mostly here to meet people (casual dates, random adventures, new friends, potential romance) and make genuine connections. Also [insert people watching made simple] because lezzbehonest...self summary boxes reveal an array of characters and people are interesting. As for meeting the love of my life? Mmehh, I'm not holding my breath OkComputer. I am interested in finding 'my person'...but it seems to me that the juxtaposition of planning to fall in love is counter-intuitive. Inherently, I believe that life is full of serendipitous opportunities and generally prefer that to awkward orchestrations of connection. Although, meeting people at bars has gotten kinda old with all those 'egos like hairdoos'. Figuratively, this is me shaving my head after a cold winter. Real talk, I could probably never shave my head in real life.

Nutshell: I'm an idealist and a realist; in being realistic, I would say i'm a lot more idealistic. I'm very mindful of being authentic. I'd do just about anything for my family and friends. I like putting things in order. I crave experience. People intrigue me. I want to do too many things with my life. Sometimes, I get caught up in the moment. I need periodic adventures/road trips to preserve my sanity. Apathy is extremely unattractive to me. I believe we can learn something from anyone/everyone; we are all students and teachers of life. I think it's important to not take yourself too seriously...although I think the ability to be serious is a necessity.

♥'s: music, animals, sunshine, dancing past last call, flip-flops and hoodie weather, sensuality, campfires, thinking outside the box, graffiti, the ocean, sports, comfortable silences, wok cooking, people watching, the path train, puzzles (literal & figurative), comfy pillows, art, snow days, storytellers, bubble baths, traveling, photography, city lights, starry nights, sarcasm, snuggling, and friendly strangers.

Passionate, Verbose, and Human.
What I’m doing with my life
Occupationally, I am a Social Worker. Currently, a Clinical Therapist at a residential treatment facility for at-risk teens. My job is fast-paced and crisis-oriented. Every day is different, and it's never boring. When I grow up (ha), I'm hoping to teach (professor) and have a Private Practice. I'm also interested in getting more involved in activism related to human rights, improving service delivery and trauma response, program evaluation and innovation, implementing student support groups in high schools & colleges, and/or opening a nonprofit for at-risk youth. Only time will tell..

My alter-ego would most likely travel the world as a journalist, activist, musician, or photographer...or settle into something more localized involving creating and/or designing.

Outside of work I'm enjoying the company of good people, yoga/hiking/biking or something active outdoors, planning new projects, appreciating art, experimental gardening, reading, exploring, and relaxing.
I’m really good at
artless self-disclosure. listening. making lengthy 'to-do' lists'. procrastinating. talking til sunrise. being intuitive. cuddling. self-awareness. putting out fires.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I can be a serious conversationalist :)
Or, if inspired..dimples and [sparkle in my] blue eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Brene Brown
Perks of Being a Wallflower, By Nightfall, Tuesdays with Morrie, Stone Butch Blues, Post Secret, The Four Agreements, Emotional Intelligence, and anything Shel Silverstein/Dr. Suess because I'm really just a big kid at heart.

Pay It Forward, Serendipity, Crash, High Art, Fried Green Tomatoes, Under the Tuscan Sun, Goonies, Hoosiers, Stigmata, Good Will Hunting, Empire Records, Princess Bride, Fight Club, Eternal Sunshine...

Greys, The Wire, Law & Order: SVU, Modern Family, Lie to Me, House, Sex and the City, Friends, In Treatment, L Word, Orange is the New Black.

I can't begin to capture the eclectic nature of my music interest here via some simple list. I listen to pretty much every genre at least somewhat, and love discovering new music!

I love trying new ethnic foods, vegetarian dishes, new restaurants, and new recipes. I love a home cooked meal, comfort food, cooking together, and occasional ordering-in. Favorites: Japanese, Thai, Italian, Mexican and Vietnamese.
Oh, and Peanut Butter is essential. If you've a peanut allergy..we prob shouldn't be kissing, ever!
The six things I could never do without
Family & Friends
Human Interaction
4 of the 5 senses
"Aha" moments
I spend a lot of time thinking about
...why I spend so much time thinking! I'm thinking about human interaction, psych stuff, sociology, art, sex, philosophy, gender, politics, identity, culture, ect., and more meta (thoughts about thinking). Seriously, think hamster wheel.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends: dinner, drinks & dancing, meeting new faces, live music, poetry, random adventure, sports event or a show of sorts.

Staying-in decompressing after a long week: cooking, snuggling with a furry friend (or human, when applicable), music, movie, good conversation, TED, reading.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Least favorite essay box. OkCupid's attempt at nudging one in the direction of vulnerability? Thing is, people generally have fairly lame responses that are: otherwise obvious, blatantly guarded, or unsuccessful attempts at being witty. Occasionally, the rare and adorbs quirky response elicits a smile. I'm all about open disclosure. If you have a question, I'm likely to have an answer. I'm not all that private of a person. That being said, I totally value and respect others privacy.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if can inspire me: to get out of my comfort zone, to spontaneously erupt into a fit of laughter, to cheese so hard my cheeks hurt, to be speechless (a rare & pleasant phenomenon). find my quirks endearing.'re pickin' up what i'm puttin' down ;)