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Eilonwy14

40 / F / Bisexual / Available

Seattle, Washington

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:29am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Aries but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Less than $20,000
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Yes, I'm busy, you're busy, we're all busy, but if you're fun to flirt with and make my heart wiggle, trust me, I'll make some time. I am bisexual, in an open relationship with my male fiance, and I'm actively looking to date/pursue new relationships with women. I'm creative, independent, sensual, and romantic. I am playful and openly affectionate with partners and close friends, but shy if I don't know you yet. Though I'm not often the one with the perfect comeback, once in a while a zinger will escape my lips and surprise everyone around me. I take my vitamins, eat my vegetables, and would rather have a cup of herbal tea than beer or wine. Biking is one of my favorite ways to relax and escape; I don't have a car. I'm ambivalent about makeup, fancy hair-do's, and nailpolish, but I'm a sucker for good hygiene, scents, and smooth healthy skin.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a Costume Engineer. I work in professional theatre and run my own business making custom and unique pieces of wearable art. I'm also an art figure model, and I've spent time contributing to group art projects and camping in the desert. I live in a group house, and I'm building my recycled urban clothing business.
I have a strategy for staying sane and happy that seems to work most of the time: morning exercise, a healthy diet, and a good balance of alone time and social time.
Forming connections with and being inspired by new women gives me so much extra energy, I feel like I can take on anything. I have a full, busy life, but if we connect, I will make time for you.
I’m really good at
sewing, painting, drawing, thrift shopping, cooking vegan, dancing, making chai, singing, making perfum/massage oil blends and using them on close friends, baking gluten-free, finding pretty bike routes around the city, creating a sensual atmosphere.
The first things people usually notice about me
My lack of height, my huge anime eyes, my voluminous hair, my 32 DD's...In the right atmosphere I am bouncy, playful, sociable and happy playing hostess. If I'm feeling stressed and overwhelmed by the crush of people, I might seem stand-offish, but I'm always up for a hug, a goofy joke, or some silly distraction.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm Vegan and Gluten-Free, so I'm always experimenting with ways to re-think comfort food. I'm a sucker for the free bookshelf. The world is a rotating library, I'd rather pass a good book on than let it collect dust on my shelf. I love the public library, there is too much out there to read many things twice. A book is a movie only I can see, movies are to share with friends, music is to get my groove flowing, my feet moving, or my voice singing along. Live theatre and eclectic performance should be experienced and participated in by everyone, not just a select few.
The six things I could never do without
Trees, my incredible spouse, soft fuzzy snuggles, lively music to bounce to, great sex, a steamy mug of chai
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to communicate better; how to let go of objects and expectations and embrace happiness; how to be more open to possibility, and how to turn my creative ideas into income.
On a typical Friday night I am
Taking care of myself means drinking only occasionally and skipping the big party every once in a while. I'm usually doing something cozy with friends or my sweetie, occasionally at a party or seeing a show. I prefer the intimate soiree to the giant blowout, but I'll go to a giant party for the chance to dance 'till I drop, or meet that special new cutie. I live with friends who choose to live together because coming home to a house full of life is a wonderful thing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a reformed nerd with social skills, I'm still a geek, as in old school: I have a stamp collection and I listen to a grammar podcast. But some things are just for me, and I don't inflict my small obsessions on others. Unless you are interested.
Of course I'm interested in sex, but I also love being sensual with someone. Touch is a wonderful thing, and can be casual, caring, meaningful, and wonderfully sexy.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, casual sex
You should message me if
you are a woman who likes sex with girls, and you are good with the fact that I am poly, have a husband, and occasional other male partners; if the safe sex discussion doesn't intimidate you; if you are curious about group houses and communal living; if you are open to alternative lifestyles.
If you like to get drunk every weekend or binge on junk food, I am not the girl for you. But if you have creative ways to relax and connect with people, I want to spend time with you!
I'm looking for someone to connect with, a woman who is eager to dive right in and explore; an instigator who'll help me turn funny ideas into great experiences.