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40 / F / Bisexual / Married
- Last Online
- Feb 20
- 5′ 2″ (1.57m)
- Body Type
- Mostly vegan
- Aries, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from masters program
- Entertainment / Media
- Less than $20,000
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t want kids
- Likes cats
- English (Fluently), French (Okay)
I have a strategy for staying sane and happy that seems to work most of the time: variety in exercise and activity, a healthy diet, and a good balance of alone time and social time.
Forming connections with and being inspired by new women gives me so much extra energy, I feel like I can take on anything. My wonderful husband and I have been doing this open thing a long time, and though it would be tempting fate to say we have it all worked out, we work really hard at open, honest communication, and we enjoy seeing each other happy.
- Girls who like girls
- Ages 25–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
seriously, oktrends is one of the best reasons to be on okcupid. Guys, not to pick on you, but the women who message me are MUCH better at this. Take that as a challenge.
Other than that, you are good with the fact that I am poly and I have a husband, and occasional other partners; if the safe sex discussion doesn't intimidate you; if you are curious about group houses and intentional community.
If you like to get drunk every weekend or binge on junk food, I am not the woman for you. But if you have creative ways to relax and connect with people, I want to spend time with you!
NOTE: If you are male, you'll have to be at least as awesome as my wonderful husband and my fun play partners for me to clear some time in my schedule.
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