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45 • Amsterdam, Netherlands • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 10:02pm
- 5′ 9″ (1.75m)
- Body type
- Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
- Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Entertainment / Media
- Rather not say
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently), Swedish (Fluently), German (Okay), French (Okay), Dutch (Poorly)
I work with video games which is great because I'm a total game nerd. I've loved games since I was a little kid and I wouldn't want to change jobs for the world. In other words I take my job pretty seriously.
Although I already know a fair few people in the Dam I'm always up for meeting new people, making new friends and maybe finding a bit of romance too.
Nah I'm not that one sided. I also read a lot. Admittedly mostly Sci-Fi (big fan of Iain M Banks) and history books but I'm also known to pick up a 'proper' book every once in a while. Generally something by Will Self as he's not boring.
I love movies although it's been quite a while since I saw anything that really excited me.
Greatest movie experience of my life: Saw Star Wars with my dad in 1977 and well it's all been down hill since then excitement wise.
Worst movie experience of my life: Saw Episode I when it premiered in San Francisco and have been unsuccessfully trying to erase it from my memory ever since.
One thing I don't do is watch TV although I love some TV shows.
I'm getting back into drawing again after a long break which is good because I spend way to much time in front of the computer.
In general I'm trying to widen my horizon and try out new things. I've gotten myself a nice bike and I love cycling around town and would love to go on longer trips eventually.
Really. I'm not just being vain.
Books wise see above. SciFi. History. Trying to be intellectual.
Movie wise think geek, like mega geek.
I like music but I've always been blessed with friends who are music fanatics and thus make me listen to good stuff. Of course I never bothered remembering any band names or titles of songs but I do like it.
Concerts: are very loud and I generally get tired/bored after 20 minutes but sometimes it's brilliant.
In summation I enjoy games books movies parties food sci-fi fantasy history conversation
Sex. The cliche is that men think about it 25% of the time and I reckon that's about right.
I really want to learn Dutch properly this time so I'm also on the look-out for someone to speak Dutch with (so not as a date thing necessarily). In exchange I'll teach you Swedish :)
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