16,834 online now

The Google of
online dating

— The Boston Globe

Completely free

— TIME

A favorite hangout
for internet goers

— The Village Voice

A perfect example
of the Web 2.0 revolution

— New York Post

Join Us!

Message Him

Join OkCupid

Find better matches with our advanced matching system

An image of ElJefe3030
An image of ElJefe3030
—% Match —% Friend —% Enemy

ElJefe3030

27 / M / straight / Single

Northridge, California

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
Height
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Casual sex
Smokes
Drinks
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Education
Job
Income
Kids
Pets
Languages
English

Similar Users

  • An image of allanak

    allanak, 25 Woodland Hills, California less spiritual

  • An image of timesmith

    timesmith, 23 Granada Hills, California less spiritual

  • An image of Thebestcatch

    Thebestcatch, 24 Reseda, California more independent

  • An image of sam_237

    sam_237, 26 Canoga Park, California more independent

  • An image of carseye8

    carseye8, 21 Northridge, California similar

  • An image of ardri7

    ardri7, 22 Northridge, California more independent

  • An image of GayFishYo

    GayFishYo, 24 Northridge, California similar

  • An image of ryeok

    ryeok, 36 Granada Hills, California more independent

Your Notes

Edit your notes

I am passionate, understanding, and friggin' funny.

My Self-Summary

I'm very laid-back and open to all kinds of experiences as long as it's with the right people (or person.) I love learning about people and what makes them tick. I'm not much of a party guy, I feel like I've grown out of it. Now I just like relaxing with good people and having good conversations.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm currently in my last year of grad school earning my master's degree in psychology at Phillip's Graduate Institute in their Marriage and Family Therapy program. Yes, I'm training to be a therapist... no that doesn't mean I'm going to analyze you. I keep my private life and work life separate. My clients are not my friends and my friends are not my clients.

It's absolutely essential for me to get outside and do something active on a regular basis. I'm not much of an athlete, but if I go too long without some kind of outdoor activity, I start to feel bogged down. Ideally, I like to get as far away from civilization as possible. Camping, Hikes, road trips out into the middle of nowhere... I love it.

I’m really good at

Vegging out, random doodles when I'm bored, memorizing lyrics, cooking (sometimes), my work, texting quickly, making people laugh, public speaking, singing in falsetto, computer stuff, some kinds of acting/performing.

The first things people usually notice about me

My sense of humor, my dashing good looks.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: The Power of Now, The Traveler's Gift, Stumbling on Happiness, The Four Agreements, A New Earth, Drinking: A Love Story.

Movies: Memento, The 40-Year Old Virgin, 300, The Birdcage, South Park: Bigger, Longer, and Uncut, The Money Pit, Pee-Wee's Big Adventure, The Incredibles, Grease. (This is just a miniature list)

Music: Anything from new age to death metal. My current favorite bands are Radiohead, Air, Keane, The Killers, Arcade Fire, Regina Spektor, MGMT.

The six things I could never do without

--Music
--A car
--Friends
--Bottled water
--My cell phone
--Nature

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Really deep, existential, philosophical things... and food.

On a typical Friday night I am

Out with a friend (or friends) watching a movie or having a nice meal... or both.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I wear boxer briefs... but I still own one pair of tighty whities. They're fine for certain occasions.

You should message me if

--You have a sense of humor. If you can make me laugh, you've earned major brownie points.

--You don't like gossiping, criticizing or judging other people.

--You feel like it.