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30 M El Paso, TX

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Last Online
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Hispanic / Latin, Other
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
There's actually a -lot- I could put on here, but if you really want to know, I'm not shy or boring. Just ask. I'll put up some stuff about me regardless. I've been asked this a lot so I am an ENTJ and I forgot what other variable. Yeah! Science!

I get out of the army later this year. Been in for a while now. Spent the last 5years or so on the bomb squad and about half of that as a team leader. Blowing things up for a living has been real fun, but it's time to do something different. I'll probably miss the adrenaline. Been working since I was 14 so think I'll do the college thing for a bit. Thought about doing bomb squad on the police force but meh, I think I'm going to do a job without a whole lot of responsibility for at least a little while. Yeah right, I'm an alpha male, I like to be in charge of stuff, I love pressure and responsibility.

I'm from NYC, but I've lived in most of the eastern and southern states. Spent most of the last 5yrs or so in Texas. Love the gun laws(lot of shooting for fun on the weekends), love a lot about Texas, but don't want to settle down here.

I have a long list of hobbies, but I think most people notice that I usually have a camera around where ever I go. My memory sucks, so I take pictures hah.

Let's see... I've been to: Canada, Puerto Rico, Peru, Australia, Thailand, Greece, Germany and England on my own. Kuwait, Iraq and Afghanistan because of the army. I love to travel and plan on going to more places; living more in general. I'm also well versed in finances, so I tend to read about money around the world(I once had a business and money has interested me ever since, in more the educational/investing sense).

I'm kind of surprised I've lived this long? I've been sort of an adrenaline junkie more or less most of my life. Maybe not so much anymore but I've settled out just a tad. Not popping wheelies on my motorcycle in front of cops anymore or doing over 170 on the highways just for fun. Good times :)
What I’m doing with my life
I guess right now just getting ready to get out of the army. I have tons of options to choose from: college, work, maybe just say fuck it and go travel for a few months. Go where ever I want with no time limits. Till then though, just doing the semi-routine thing Sunday-Friday.
I’m really good at
I've gotten really good at sleeping, I love it.

Seriously: I am a good talker but I prefer listening. I like pushing people to strive for more in life. Seems like all my friends my age have kids. So I get to play with a lot of kids, seems like I fit right in, I don't notice the weird looks when I jump into the ball pit with them at mcdonalds :-D my friends tell me about it later though hah.

I'm pretty good at being open to suggestion? As long as your idea of fun isn't "let's watch paint dry" I'm apt to do most anything(sitting around just to talk can be fun, if you can hold a conversation well). A bonfire in the desert with some drinking turns into a shooting competition. A shooting competition turns into bunny blasting through the open desert at 3am in an open top jeep with 5 shooters, a spotter and the driver having probably the most fun I've had in a while. Granted we probably broke many "laws" that night(discharging firearms from a moving vehicle, drinking and driving, drinking and shooting, hunting with no permits, no seat belts and that's just off the top of my head), no one was hurt, everyone had fun and there were no incriminating pictures taken :). Winning!
The first things people usually notice about me
Depends on what they see or hear first? I laugh loud. I do karaoke shamelessly. I've lost bets where I have to cross dress downtown. So, yeah.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The great gatsby, pride and prejudice, and the law of Sucess.

Movies: cloud atlas, fight club and the matrix. Met Keanu reeves in person and he is a cool dude who's had a fucked up life.

Shows: game of thrones, the walking dead?(season 3 was kinda lame), battle star galactica.

Music: appropriate for the setting, though more partial to rock, techno and I've definitely grown into country. Now if I could just learn more than copper head road and two stepping. If I'm listening to EDM in my headphones I will randomly start dancing. I get stares, no fucks given, usually.

Food: I'm like a magician when it comes to food. If it's edible, it will disappear :)
The six things I could never do without
1) ambition
3) family
4) freedom to pursue happiness
5) humor
6) friends
7) food
A lot of stuff I'd hate to give up actually.( and yes I left out 2 on purpose)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How our economy sucks and how the government/media keep saying it's doing great. Thanks Obamacare! (I realize it's just a tiny fraction of the problem but this leads into a long subject). Buy gold, and silver. Preferably American eagles or Austrian philharmonics.

On a typical Friday night I am
Whatever I feel like , which changes with the company available or lack there of. If I'm solo, I might go for a ride at midnight because there is no one out on the roads. Some of my friends go to raves and I enjoy them too. Some like bars but I generally don't, and some friends just want to go to the movies. Why not. Oh yeah, I hate beer. I've been to 13 different countries, tried beer in 10 of them and all over the US. I just don't like it. I'll drink most any alcohol(franjelico and coke is my dessert drink), and I enjoy a cigar with whiskey about once a month.

Also, friends keep randomly showing up at my new place. So, there will probably be rock band. Lots of rock band.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm... Ron... Burgandy? Really though... Let's see... I once got a sunburn on my ass from swimming all day(ahem, trying to swim). It sucks when your face gets sun burned; it -really- sucks when it hurts to sit down. And, I own a zebra snuggy? I'm actually using it as I type this out on my phone, it's awesome.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
If you can hold a conversation, would talk shit to me while we play video games, like to cuddle, just are a naturally happy person and enjoy life in general. Maybe a gym partner, I love food but if I don't work out, it will keep me warm all year round.

I -do not- expect to meet "mrs right" right away. Even if I did, it might take a while to realize it.
I also just got back from Afghanistan, been single for a while and I -want- something serious but not against casual either.
If we just hang out and find we're good friends and nothing else, hey, awesome. All my friends are good people :)

I get asked frequently: what are you looking for in a woman?
Me, duh.
Seriously though I look for 3 things:
1) physical AND mental attraction ( physical will get my attention, mental will keep me around)
2) ambition or goals in life. Even if it's just to be a good mother/ wife. Goals are important to me.
3) has one child or none at all. I love kids, but going from zero kids to 2+ by dating someone seems like too much for me. And before someone gets all huffy puffy about it; children and making a family are very important to me. I -want- to be a father, a great one, some day. I also only want 1-2 kids; 3 at the very most if my partner and I can handle it( would be a serious discussion after a second). You can't expect to date a mother without playing the role of the father, at least eventually. No I am not baby crazy :p the topic has been brought to light in the few days I've been on here and it turned into an all day discussion about it, so it's fresh in my mind.