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31 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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Last online
Yesterday – 11:19pm
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I make awkward faces that are often misconstrued. I have a belly and chubby cheeks. I love making & playing music, painting, drawing and working on my motorcycle or car...oh, and making an ass out of myself. I'm too smart and often too dumb for my own good so I have a tendency to over-think things, but at the same time under-plan...this leads to a lot of mishaps and adventures. I usually have fun, no matter the circumstances.

I'm me. I'm nice but can also be an asshole. I don't say that with pride, it's something i'm working on. I'm funny. I'm crude. I'm open minded and understanding, but sometimes a judgmental person. Again, working on it. I'm trying my best to become better at this game called life. Striving to be more secure, less judgmental, more trusting, and less hypocritical. Sometimes I succeed and sometimes I fall flat on my face. I am happy with myself as a human being, but know that I can become a much better man. I'm a riddle, wrapped in a mystery, inside an enigma, topped off with hot sauce.
What I’m doing with my life
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I live and breathe social justice. I work with young people in East Oakland, offering them a safety net and support network that in my community is often overlooked by family, friends, and society.
I'm also out drinking and dancing to beat of my own drum. Busy talking people's ears off about race, class, and when I'm not being too pig headed to see beyond my own insecurities and hangups, gender, sex and sexuality. I'm unsure of my future plans but i'm happy with the journey i'm on.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Understanding things when they're first explained to me.

Painting and making Ikea furniture prettier with my artwork.


Playing music.

Being a smart ass.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I have bad eyesight, so I can't focus on text for too long. Last book I read was Always Running, by Luis Rodriguez, that shit was dope.

Bad eyesight and a short attention span keep me from enjoying CGI and special effects too much, recently fell asleep at The Hobbit. Trading Places, The Godfather trilogy's cool, Super Troopers, Blood in Blood Out, I dunno, I'll pretty much watch half an hour of whatever, an hour or two of what I think is good.

Music. Riot Grrrl to Salsa, Corridos and metal. I dig it all, even country. I grew up listening to "Mexican Music", moved on to rap at 12 years old, got into punk and hardcore at 15, began liking metal at 22, and listen to what the fuck I want at 28. I like going to shows. I like DIY. and I like to be deaf by the end of the night.

Food. I'm Salvadoran, so I love pupusas, beans and plantanos, Salvadoran tamales, and Horchata de morro. Pizza is dope too, Mexican & Indian food is tasty. I also really enjoy Oatmeal and potatoes, separately.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Pen and Pencil
Something to write or draw on
Chewy fruit candy
My brain
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Work. Sex. Race. Class. Gender. Shit to do on a daily basis. Where I will be today, and where I plan to be tomorrow.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends. Dancing, drinking, smoking and trying to stay up as late as possible. Or, in bed trying to keep warm if it's cold.
You should message me if
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You feel like it.