I work in LIC (Long Island City), play in the city but sleep in Jersey.

I'm:

~ Chill
~ Multi-faceted
~ Humorous
~ Independent

I've been called a Renaissance man.

WORK - audio visual (technology).

MUSIC, mostly weekends - drumming like my life depended on it.

VIDEO, every now and then - filming, editing.

ART, when inspired - painting, creative projects.

LEARNING, always - life's mysteries.

I'm a really nice guy. No, really. Treat me with the same kindness I give and we will get along famously.

I'm really good at too many things for my own good. It's hard to explain. I think it's a survival thing......or something.

I'm good at creating and observing artistic things, performing/creating musical soundscapes, humor on the spot, conversation, cooking tasty things, sports, dancing until my body hurts, surviving, etc.

~ Funny ha, ha! Yes, humor. I can be equally serious when necessary. It's a balance.

~ I'm a good soul. You might see what I mean.

~ I'm pretty straightforward. No time for bullsh*t, for we only have so much time on planet earth.

Movies - Anything that can make me laugh. Sci-Fi. Unique film.

TV - Don't need Cable TV. I'm more productive that way. My time as a couch potato has long passed but I'll watch stuff with ya if it makes you happy.

Music - Jazz, funk, house, indie, 80's, rock, hip-hop, drum and bass, salsa, classical, Brazilian, etc. Try me, please. I like to know and hear what people might be listening to.

Food? Indian, Korean, Spanish, Japanese, Italian, Thai, etc. Trader Joe's?

Books - Technology and music as they affect my livelihood.

1. Family/Valuable friends
2. Dreams
3. Internet/iPhone
4. Income
5. Food
6. Music

An obviously condensed list.

Music. Natural things. Progress. Innovation. Destiny. Also, all the usual mumbo jumbo we humans deal with.

Why people think I live in the remote woods of NJ. I live in historical Weehawken, NJ. It's like the 6th borough of NYC it's so close to Manhattan. It takes me 5 minutes to get into Manhattan sometimes. Faster than even some NY'ers have it.

Oh, and why are women looking for someone specifically from Manhattan? Half the population there aren't even natives.

I'm usually up for almost any activity given the proper motivation. It all depends on the mood really. We'd have fun.

~ I don't expect to find "the woman of my dreams" on this site. One can dream, but.......yeah.

~ Actually, most of my experiences through this online dating thing have been most disappointing. It's fascinating how dishonest and confused people are, with themselves and others. Grow the f*ck up! Be real, honest.

~ I want to be good at everything.

•You know how to Salsa and can teach this newbie (not a must). I'm a great dancer in general but my partner work technique needs help.

•You have an average IQ or better. (The "Jersey Shore" types need not apply)

•You are strong and don't depend on a man for every need. It's a different world ladies but don't think my chivalry is obsolete.

• # 1, you're honest/real. If you're honest, I'll be honest. No time for games right?

Smile!