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38 • Seattle, WA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 34–44
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Online now!
- 6′ 2″ (1.88m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Christianity, but not too serious about it
- Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- English (Okay), Spanish (Okay)
The path is never straight. Save energy. I'm pretty damn easy going if I might say so myself. I own a business and work as an Athletic Director at a middle school. Time is precious to me, but I'd love to make some for an important person. I have many likes and dislikes and am not overly complicated. I say what I mean and mean what I say. I guess I have my share of inner complexities, but don't we all? My baggage all fits into one nice little carry-on. I don't have any checked luggage.....
I enjoy the sun, sports, learning, reading, solving, both my jobs, my friends, working out, downtime, uptime, sleeping in (when applicable), good coffee, live music, my dog, dancing, goofing around, breakfast, beer, bbq, and everything else I can't think of right now.
What I'm looking for:
A drama free relationship
Someone who likes to get dirty, but not stay dirty
An easy going spirit
A SUPER GOLF BUDDY! (not imperative)
Someone who has their own life, their own friends, and their own interests. I don't want 100% of your time and hopefully you don't want 100% of mine. That's also known as smothering.....
I need some weekend vacations. Victoria? Portland? Vancouver? San Fran? Wine tasting? The coast???
-Going from a tie and slacks to a t-shirt and jeans
-Playing the drums
-Flossing my teeth
-Laughing at myself
-Making kids run!!!!
Love music. Morcheeba, NOFX, Floater, De La Soul, The Cult (first concert ever!), Zero 7, Thievery Corp, New Order, Blackalicious, Jeff Buckley, 80's and 90's RnB, Citizen Cope, K-os, Jamiroquai, Jose Gonzalez, Rob Wynia, Walking Papers, Led Zeppelin, Devin the Dude, Groove Armada, Sticky Fingers, Scarface, A Perfect Circle, and Sweet Water are a few of my faves. That barely scratches the surface. Please don't tell anyone, but my guilty pleasure is J.T.
Love food. Yes, please. Any and all. I promise I'll put my napkin in my lap and chew all my food before I talk.
4) a good book
And now here's 6 things I could always do without:
1) costco on the weekend
2) infant birthday parties
3) that slow driver in the left lane who thinks he's on the freeway all by himself
5) coldplay, queen, and morrissey
6) men in bike shorts
If I dyed my hair I'd look 25.
Not hard.....not hard at all.
***Even if we just end up golf friends, those are good ones to have for sure!!!*****
You don't ride your bike every waking moment of the day. I.E. you have a car.
You travel, but also have a job. I can't believe how many people's profiles look like a passport. Does anybody on here work full time?
You like to get out, but also like to stay in. I'm a busy body just like you, but completely understand the importance of downtime!
I get how this works. We skim the words. We look at the pics. If the pics get our attention we look at the words again. Seems simple enough. If you see anything you like, please feel free to write. I'll do my best to write back and look forward to digging below the surface to find out about the real you! My pics don't do me justice. *Not my words*. Heard that on many dates. Guess I just suck at taking pictures.
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