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31 Oakland, CA Woman


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  • Ages 25-35
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My details

Last online
Nov 29
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Judaism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm not sure I believe in a self summary ...I'm 31 rockin some new braces ;)
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a social worker, I work with kids, and for extra cash I clean houses. I have my masters in clinical social work. Im blessed to be doing something I love and to be in a profession where growth and continued learning is a must. I work hard and play hard, and if it's possible to chill hard, i do that too.
I’m really good at
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listening... loving...eating...sleeping...critically thinking.. and laughing at myself
The first things people usually notice about me
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i dunno, depends on the context.... people usually comment on my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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True Romance is my favorite movie of all time. Quentin Tarantino is the shit.... comedies that make me laugh till I wanna pee my pants are rare but appreciated.
I don't really like stupid romantic comedies, but a romance with a good sex scene is always a go.
I really like the movie Requiem for a Dream.
I've seen Goodfellas like a thousand times, literally.
You can't go wrong with documentaries.

Reading: The Philosophical Mind of The Baby, Autobiography of Malcolm X, A Thousand Splendid Suns, Parable of the Sower, Teaching to Transgress, Borderlands/Fronteras, A People's History of the United States

Music: currently playing through my headphones is a playlist with: The Roots, Erykah Badu, Zion I, the Beatles, Tribe Called Quest, Pink Floyd, Damian Marley, Dangerdoom, Otis Redding, Van Morrison, J Dilla, Allison Krauss, Mos Def, Nirvana, The Pixies, Little Dragon, Common, D'Angelo, Nina Simone, John Coltrane, Wisin y Yandel, Aventura, Frank Ocean. If you can hang with that hella ADD playlist then I like you already. I was raised to love all kinds of music, so there's probably a song I love in any genre... but I love to dance and hip hop is what makes me wanna move.

Food: I will try ANYTHING. picky/unadventurous eaters annoy me. I love sushi, cheeseburgers, pasta with buttery white wine sauces, ice cream with grilled bananas butter and brown sugar, blt's, a good steak (especially in Argentina), choripan, pho, pozole, enchiladas, tacos, hashbrowns, over-easy eggs, bread and cheese, pretty much any and all fruit and veggies.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
family, friends, good food, good sleep, passion, and perspective.

the other six things i can't do without: butter, hoop earrings, warm sunny days, dental floss, touch, laughing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the beauty and ugliness that exist simultaneously in the world, how such a dichotomy came to exist, how relative/subjective the definition of beautiful/ugly is, and what it all means. i think a lot about social justice and all the ism's in the world. I think a lot about how to dig myself out of the grind and manifest more movement and creative expression in my life. I think a lot about my endless flaws. I also think a lot about needing to not think so much.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
friends. bar. dancing. music. art. couch. my bed. movie.'s a toss up, but a combination of any of the above will do
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you feel so inclined.