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I have 3 sons, a 3 year old, a 1 1/2 year old and a newborn. If you don't like kids, I'm not a good match. My kids are what I pour 99% of my energy into at the moment, and it's not likely to change soon.

I am looking for friends. Friends that might want to date me later is fine too, but I'm not available for much casual dating. Sounds like fun, but I don't have the time. I want to connect with people, people I can love, on many levels, none of them need be sexual or romantic.

I've met hardly anyone I feel attracted to right away. Usually that sort of thing build for me over time, so if you are in a hurry, you'd better keep looking.

If you are abusive, controlling, possessive or jealous now is a good time to hit alt+f4. I don't anticipate living a life of monogamy anytime soon, although I've tended to be sexually exclusive thus far, I don't like the feeling of being trapped. I think monogamy is something that is unnatural, and I don't intend to force it again anytime soon.

I don't tolerate people who lie to me or are toxic in any other way. I have no problem cutting someone out that becomes a source of negative energy to me or my family.

I'm not bisexual, I'm pansexual and OKC should be progressive enough to have more options in certain areas.

Injustice really pisses me the fuck off. I tend to like other people who feel the same way.

I chill with my kids, make sure they stay alive and teach them shit. I cook, do laundry, cleaning (on a good day) and generally run a household. I do this by choice, I am liberated, don't worry.

I also attend college online, despite my distaste for institutions and the fact that I do not really want to get a job or participate in the life of being a wage slave, I like of idea of starting a degree collection. No idea why.

I'm living with my parenting partner, who is my legal spouse and the father of my children (yes, all of them, since so many nosy people ask :P) although we are not together. This is the plan until the children reach adulthood.

Giving birth and then parenting the earthling birthlings, making food, cuddling, fucking, contradicting myself, being brutally honest, and understanding all sides of a situation. (In no particular order.)

The baby tied to my front, my eyes, my essence.

Oh boy. This will have to wait... Okay, I'm going to start this now, so bear with me as I slowly add items.

Books: Tigana by Guy Gavriel Kay, The Neverending Story By Michael Ende, The Ethical Slutby Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt, The Continuum Concept by Jean Leidloff, The Tao of Pooh by Benjamin Hoff, The Dark Tower Series by Stephen King, Harry Potter by J.K. Rowling, Unconditional Parenting by Alfie Cohn, The Elegant Universe by Brian Greene, and much much more.

Movies: This list is way too long to tackle right now. I like independent, foreign, stoner, comedy, and documentaries.

Music: Again, not doing it right now. I like hip-hop (not mainstream rap) Especially freestyles, and I like chill music, and real music, I listen to the Current for a radio when I can tolerate a radio.

Oh, you know, air, water, food, shelter, skin and other vital organs as well as sleep.

How great my last birth was, just the father and I present, far more pleasure than pain and the power that entailed. How giving birth without patriarchal interference is one of the ultimate feminist acts that I could possibly achieve.

I also think about how backwards society is, and all that controversial, political, punker hippie hopper stuff.

Which of the many directions I am being pulled to move towards. What I intend to do with my time once I have no nurslings.

Not doing anything as exciting as you are. Likely having dinner, then cleaning it up and relaxing a bit, then accidentally falling asleep while putting the children to bed. Waking up feeling ripped off that I ended my day too soon, masturbating and then going back to sleep.

Or engaging in something like:

Pregnancy, Natural Family Living,Natural Childbirth, Homebirth, Waterbirth, FreeBirth, Primal Birthing, Primal Living, Continuum Concept, Attachment Parenting,Breastfeeding, Intactivism,Gentle Discipline,Unschooling, Co-Sleeping, Veganism, Dumpster Diving, Salvaging, Thrift Stores, Garage Sales, Local, Organic, Gardening, Houseplants, [Hydroponics, Terrariums, Aquariums, Bicycling, Walking, Dancing, Bellydancing, Bootydancing Swing Dancing, Photography, Painting, Drawing, Writing, Sewing, Knitting, Crafts, Creativity, Tea, Massages, Green, Incense,Candles, Bubble Baths, Books, Movies, Video Games, Games, Pente, Chess, Magic The Gathering, Yoga, Homeopathy, Raw Foods, Raw Foodism, Travelling, Skoolies, Nomadic, Earthships, Straw Bale Housing , Trees, Plants, Rocks, Water, Thunderstorms, Faeries, Fairies, RenFest, Renaissance Festival , Quantum Physics, Law of Attraction, Intellectuals, Political Conversation, Intelligent Conversation, Tolerance,Love, Peace.

I'm EXTREMELY fertile. I'm also latex-sensitive and don't use hormonal birth controls, as I avoid putting anything pharmaceutical in my body. I also don't want to have another child for several more years, so unless you have a vasectomy I'll probably be too paranoid to sleep with you, if it ever even got to that point.

Unless you're a woman, of course ;)

You are my evil twin... or think I might be yours.

If you want to talk to me :) I'm not so good at making the initial communication... I prefer real time chatting to messages. I use yahoo (earthie_mama)