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Elerie

46 / F / Straight / Single

Gloucester, United Kingdom

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English, French (Okay), Welsh (Poorly)

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I am interesting, inquisitive, and soft hearted.

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My Self-Summary

I can cook (well), dance, sew (if I have to), debate (normally after a glass of wine so tell me to shut up), change the break pads on a car (but it took ALL day and I am never doing it again), garden (happily), sing (terribly and usually on the M5). Friends tell me I am strong but slightly dippy and that I am a workaholic.

I have a sense of wonder about nature and will stop the car to look at clouds. I like to laugh and don't do it often enough. I am well travelled: Singapore, Malaysia, France, Egypt.

My life is full but I miss romance and its ages since I looked at someone and had butterflies in my stomach.
Now in French
I can read French well but my accent is dreadful
Now in Welsh
I am half Welsh by birth and half of me thinks I should learn to speak it properly

What I’m doing with my life

Spending most of the time dreaming out of the window when I should be writing. Running around like a demented idiot looking after friends and family. Trying to teach my teenage son not to create a fire hazard in his bedroom. Catching odd weekends at remote cottages in Wales, fishing (don't ask), dodging invites to go scuba diving/absailing from said son (did it once, never again).

I’m really good at

Writing, gardening (I've got green fingers), making people feel loved, sorting out problems, making a mess in the kitchen and am excellent at avoiding the washing up.

The first things people usually notice about me

My hair - its got its own life force, my eyes (which are green behind my specs) and - if I like who I am talking to, a certain impulsiveness.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Too many books to mention - and they depend on my mood. I think its easier to say what I don't like here: movies - I watch everything but don't enjoy gore soaked horror, music - I listen to everything but don't like punk or serious jazz, food - I eat everything but don't like too much aniseed.

The six things I could never do without

My son, writing, mascara, a fast car, sheep dogs, coffee?

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Organising my life into a less hectic routine, whether its too early to invest in anti wrinkle cream at the age of 46, the nature of happiness and how its best achieved, work, finishing painting the bathroom, whether the cat will need to be shaved again (its a Persian but thinks its a farm cat), whether I am going senile or is it just eccentric, writing, whether the man of my dreams exists or not.

On a typical Friday night I am

I'd love to say I'm out on the town but I'm normally cooking a fantastic meal, enjoying the company of friends watching a dvd or listening to music.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm not admitting to anything on a public site!

You should message me if

You're single, working and have a wistful heart.

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