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29 M Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 26–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them

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My self-summary
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I'm an extremely loyal, full hearted romantic, that loves to be in love

are ya in for a read?

I am a very ambitious person and i've had a very eventful life. Both good and bad events. I used to get the "old soul" label. Usually from reading or listening to my poetry. I've been writing since I was 12. I'm extremely creative and have moved on from "old soul" to "eccentric". I have one of those personalities that can connect and empathize with anyone.

I'm a soft spoken, slow talkin' Portland kid, takin' a swing at the Big Apple. it took some time, but going on 6 years now and I'm thriving.

I work in fashion (hence the dapper pictures) but I'm not a fashionista at all. But maaaaan I love girls with style. You can be so sexy without cleavage and short skirts. And hey you; girl who wears red boots with everything? say hi. :)

I'm really here to find someone special, and I'll be very polite along the way. In other words I'm not wasting anyone's time. I'll be honest and open about it. And it goes both ways, I get it. It's just like Seinfeld, "she had man hands", "I'm afraid, because I've only seen her in low light". Dude it's New York, unfortunately there are so many options it's easy to throw people away. In the end it's all just a process, and I know I'm someone's Mr. Right

I'll leave it at that.
good luck out there. And I hope to see you twice!
What I’m doing with my life
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I think within structure there is freedom, I don't feel the need to vacate the premises, pack up and go and find myself on the move. I've come across this with people in the process of dating and it doesn't work for me. I'm almost 30, I don't need to explore new countries on a schedule every year, within structure is freedom, and I know a foundation is much better to return to then starting all over again.

I'm also making a lot of art, pouring out poetry, excited to go to work, and constantly working on being humble (W.I.P. trust me I do try)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
singing like Elvis
Classical singing
working a crowd
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Is what I'm wearing. And I look young.

The second thing is very apparent. I'm a talkative guy via okc, txt, and life, I don't play it cool with small responses, or ambiguous responses, I'm honest and it shows, at times maybe in an embarrassing way if I like you.

so people notice how eloquent and precise I am, and a true expert of conversation. I don't talk too much, words are just who I am
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm stuck in the 90's music wise. I know them all, I sing along. I love 90's.

I've seen groundhog day as many times as he repeated
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Notes app
2. My cloud
3. Briefs
4. A watch
5. Seltzer
6. Pizza
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I am also really cool about reverse gender rules, like if you want to work and I'll do the breast feeding, fine by me. And honestly if I were to be engaged without question or a moment of thought I would ask "do you want to take my name or should I take yours?" especially to an only child only daughter (ya feel me?)

I know it's not true with men on here, but there is sort of an essence and presence of a woman that cannot be portrayed in a photo of her, although I believe everyone looks like their worst photo on here. I'd have to say that I meet women IRL and if I saw her on here I might hesitate, but women have such grace and beauty sometimes the way they move and stand and walk overrides a few bad angles.

I'm also making a lot of art, pouring out poetry, excited to go to work, and constantly working on being humble (W.I.P. trust me I do try)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
wishing I had saturday and sunday off instead of just sunday
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I became single in July '13 and in my opinion became a great guy and worthy to date in May '14
I've seen every episode of girls.
horror movies scare the shit out of me. unless you want to hold my hand and risk breaking your fingers, or hold me down every time there is a sudden sound or action.
You should message me if
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if you have something interesting to say, that'll usually get a reply out of me, and that fear of horror movies isn't our only common ground?

I kinda want a girl to sweep me off of my feet, i'm tired of lifting people.

Extra points if you live in Brooklyn but not opposed to elsewhere