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Elil-hrairrah

42 M Colorado Springs, CO

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 27
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of space camp
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), C++ (Poorly), Greek (Poorly), Sanskrit (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a fulltime single father. I moved to Colorado Springs late August 2014 to be closer to my moms and to settle here with my 5 year old daughter. I am looking for other parents/single parents to make friendships with. I know no-one here at all. I come from a cultural eccentric scene. I was raised in a counter culture (by lesbian Beat-nick writers(my moms)), and became a part of many subcultures as a youth. Not just the Punk scene. I love Punk, OI!, Goth, Industrial, strange electronica, and the most esoteric aspects of underground rock-and-roll. As I have grown older my interests and passion in music has grown and spread to the ends of the planet. If you ran up to me at a cafe',and grabbed my headphones off my head, you might experience the sounds of an ambient nature recording of a soft thunderstorm... ...to the sound of someone smashing glass in concrete... ...and just about everything between.
I did not grow up in a middle class nuclear family life style. I grew up working-poor, in a violent, low income neighborhood, in the East Bay. As a kid I ate granola , and stayed up late with my mother in smoky San Francisco cafes and watched my mom snap her fingers instead of clapping her hands in respect for the person speaking behind the coffee shop microphone. I was taken to the Exploratorium and the Palace of fine Arts as often as other parents take their children to the zoo. I discovered the chaos of live music in 1984, back when Gillman Street was called the “Where-house”. I discovered Punk music, and culture in Sacramento, around the same year I was visiting my father on the weekends... ...the summer of 1985.
I was skateboarding the K Street Mall in Sacramento before the Shame-train was put in. To this day I am attracted to and keen on music and skateboarding, as if it were as important as the food I eat.
I am urban. I am a true city baby. I love sirens, graffiti, smog and concrete. I skateboard as if it were a practiced meditation acknowledging the clacking of sidewalk grooves under my wheels as my mantra. I do not reminisce about these times… I am still there for the most part.
I work in the tattoo industry, and have done so, off and on my whole adult life. I feel like I am the child who grew up in the circus, but sometimes I want to run away and join real life. I love my culture all the same, and there is no other career or life style I would rather be involved in. I didn’t sell-out... ...I bought in.

I’m not going to tell you what my top three albums are or my top five foreign films are either. That is the “High fidelity”, stupid list shit that most people do.
I am a father raising my Baby girl. I don’t need to say what this part of my life means to me. I love Café Bustelo, and I enjoy them with no guilt or qualms. I do not take any drugs that are not prescribed to me by my doctor.
I am an artist, writer and reader. I don’t own a TV, and I could care less. I like film but not too much on the mainstream. I try to stay involved and up-to-date with the local arts scene. I'm heavily influenced by artists: Mobius, and Burnnie Wrightson. I have studied the masters as well, but pen and ink have influenced me the most.
I am not a toughguy. I am not a bruiser. I am a Father, an artist, a skater, a writer, and a 39 year old Punk. I am a wide open eye of hurricane. I am rolling urges red-glowing desire. I am cock sure, wise as hell. I am the morning mist when my love steps out doors, shining steel , in tight, ink black pants. I am a street writer, born into a clan of good&evil.
There are those who will omit most of themselves for too long and there are those who are just a mirror of someone they once loved. I, hide behind my sleeves of tattoos and the mystique of not being loud; but a watcher, carefully observing my surroundings in an alien environment, and amongst peers I do not know. I am not other people. My thoughts are not someone else's opinions, my life is not a mimicry, and my passions are not a quotation. I am completely self made. I am self taught, self motivated, and self produced. I am my own industry. I have been broken, and fixed, flawed and rusted, and I survived! I use the word “Punk” because of it's deep, cultural, intellectual, DIY, and free thinking ideals, and not for the coarse, broken glass, and fist full of safety-pin properties that it is so commonly associated with it. I am not a spiked ball of social-unrest that says “fuck”all the time. I am as articulate, intelligent, and as feeling, as any. I relate to Punkrock's creative, book-smart, and non-materialistic ideology by mainstream standard. I am not a toughguy. I am not a bruiser. I am not a badass... ...I am a single dad doing my best.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Tattooing, Drawing, skateboarding parking garages late at night, and raising my daughter.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Losing my keys, falling off my skateboard, waking up late, drawing, Tattooing, having conversations without looking at my phone, stringing words together on paper, lifting heavy things, not killing house plants, slight of hand card tricks, and computers....

In addition... I decided to list some things I am NOT good at, and things I know very little about. The things in this list are not out of animosity, but out a lack of exposure to them, a lack of interest, and/or a lack of understanding of them. This dose NOT mean I am closed to learning about them.

Things I know NOTHING about:
Sports
Modern country music
Cars
Sit-Coms and Reality shows
Heavy metal
Decaffeinated Coffee
"Hold my beer... ...Watch this!"
How to keep pet fish alive
Mustaches or beards
Owls
Current trends of mainstream clothing brands
Politics
How your phone works
The personal lives of movie stars
Candy and potato chips
Hacking Apple computer systems... ...I am not a PC or a MAC, I AM LINUX! I AM $UDO ROOT! ...and No, I am not the 'Big Bang theory' type nerd... ...I am not the nerd who just reads comics, I am the nerd who writes and creates comics, listening to 'Demented Are Go', sharpening his pencils with a switchblade.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The first things people probably notice about me are my tattoos. Other than that i don't know how other people perceive me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite Books and authors:
Douglas Addams
Piers Anthony
Thich Nhat Hanh
Ray Bradbury
Watership Down by Richard Addams
Neil Gaiman
Bukowski
And this list goes on and on and on......

Film:
I tend to gravitate to Science fiction films, 'B' Movies, Just about anything animated, Independent film, and strange/cult 'midnight movies'. I go and see plenty of the 'block-busters' through out the year, but the films that leave more of a lasting impression with me are the independent ones. In the last year or so... ...The movie that hit me hardest is: Wristcutters (a strange dark comedy about purgatory.)

Music:
[This list is categorized by genre of music (not by band or group) and by frequently of listening.]

Post 1977 Punk
U.K. 1982 Punk (Street punk/OI!) NOT to be confused with 'Hardcore, Grind, filth, Etc.
Industrial
Deathrock (Goth(ic)rock. i.e. Bauhaus, Sisters of Mercy Etc... ...NOT to be confused with Deathmetal ...two totally different animals.))
!960's Garage rock (fuzzy, noisy, Wurlitzer keyboards...)
I like some Pyscobilly
1970's and 80's "newwave' ...Kraftwork, Cure, Sigue Sigue Sputnik, Devo, Duran Duran, Garry Newman Etc.
I love 12 string classical, acoustic guitar, and Spanish Guitar.
1960's Reggae music (bluebeat/rocksteady/Ska)
Good Jazz
Underground Hip-Hop, but not 'brag-rap and top 40 rap.
I am not ANI-contemporary or ANTI- top-40 but there is very little of music that is played on the radio that has ever grabbed me. ...my favorite band (group) of ALL TIME [out of ALL music] is: Skinny Puppy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
SIX things???.... I'm a city boy, Not gonna' happen... Here are NINE. My daughter, Some art supplies, a computerized device(computer, tablet,or smartphone), my skateboard, my tattoo gear, sex (passion/intestacy), dark music, wine, my vape pen, my glasses.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The present moment, and my daughter.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...doing nothing typical.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you have actually read my "Self summery, and you can actually understand where I come from and you relate... ...or if you are a parent/single parent who has room for another friend.