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44 / F / Straight / Single

Washington, Illinois

Her Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and very serious about it
Sign
Capricorn and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Offspring
Has kids, and might want more
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
One day at a time, I am smiling, laughing, and looking for my "total package". I have finally figured out who I am and what I want...now, to find that guy who wants those same, or at least similar things. I am driven and am working hard to improve myself every day! I have started working out 6 days a week and love it (Insanity and gym time)! I have an incredible career and great kids, what more could I ask for (besides someone to spend my spare time with)!
I eat food (except seafood). Some people love me, some like me, some hate me. I have done good. I have done bad. I love my pj's and I go out without make up and sometimes I don't do my hair. I can also put on heels and jeans or a skirt and go to an important meeting or out on the town. I mani... I pedi... I tan...for myself and anyone who looks at me. I'm random and crazy. I am way more logical and brainy than most guys want me to be. I NEVER pretend to be someone I am not. I am who I am, you can love me or not. But, if I care about you ..I will do so with my whole heart and soul!!!! And I will never make apologies for the way I am!
What I’m doing with my life
I am educated, hard working, and driven. I have an incredible career with flexibility, autonomy, and only work M-F days!
I have one daughter is graduated and finding her way in the world (but not out of my house as of yet) and finding that raising 17 year old identical twin young men can be challenging (even when they are as incredible as mine).
Right now, I am focused on being a "better me"... I am working out, riding my bike, and training for the Steamboat run in June.
During football season, you can usually find me watching a game on TV or at the local High School game. I am the single mom who orders the Direct TV NFL Sunday ticket to ensure she sees all her Steelers games!!! I am a wrestling mom and love it! (I am the loud one yelling for my 6'0, 220 pound son to "TIE HIM UP IN A KNOT". I cheer for the win, jump up and down, and turn to you for the celebratory hug and kiss!!!).
My twins are older and I am finding that the transition to them leaving for the military next year may be harder than I thought alone. Heck, I get lonely when they just go to work in the evening.
Just home from an incredible 10 day adventure in Ireland :-) Incredible, breathtaking, and an experience I will never forget! I'm ready to go again...who's with me? :-)
I’m really good at
Making it work, when it doesn't seem like it will :-)
The first things people usually notice about me
My green eyes, my tan, & my smile. :-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love a movie that drags every emotion out of me. I am not crazy about scary movies, but would watch if someone was there for me to bury my head in their shoulder :-). I love all kinds of music (except elevator music). I have to be able to turn it up and sing loud (closet car and shower singer). You can only pray that Carly Rae Jepson doesn't come on the radio or I will have to bust out a chorus of "Call me maybe" for you at the top of my lungs :-) I will eat about anything, EXCEPT seafood (not a fan... might eat some fried shrimp if the mood hits). I will go with you to your favorite seafood restaurant, BUT I can guarantee I will make a goofy face and crinkle my nose at the smell when we walk in. I am an avid Steelers and Cardinals fan!
The six things I could never do without
God, my three incredible kids, my education/career, my smartphone/internet, a comfy pair of shoes, and "me" time.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What God has in store for me... and why this dating crap has to be so difficult :-(
On a typical Friday night I am
Unfortunately sitting at home, can't you do something about that?! I usually find friends to do something with or I use it to catch up on cleaning or watching TV :-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like to eat Moose Tracks ice cream while sitting in a hot bath after a long, hard day.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 38–55
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
...you can turn me on with a look, a good laugh, or great conversation. If you can make me smile and feel special, you'll surely win my heart :-)
Emotional availability is important when you are looking to find someone new. If you aren't ready, find yourself first...THEN find that person that fits with you, healed and ready to go :-) (Just an observation since I have talked to a few guys on here).