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32 • F • Philadelphia, PA
- Last Online
- Apr 13
- Hispanic / Latin, White
- 5′ 3″ (1.60m)
- Body Type
- Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
- Working on Ph.D program
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
I am not concerned about the future (except in the most vague and nebulous way). I think it is a mistake to cling to the hope of stability, whether emotional, financial, or otherwise, and I've been negotiating letting go of those cultural narratives for myself. It's not easy, but the "settle down" paradigm (work, travel, love) is not working out for me, and I'm finally accepting that it's not because there's something missing or wrong with me. "All human relationships end in death:" not just as a fuck off to all the cultural noise a single 32 year old woman gets, directly or indirectly, from family, friends, and the world at large -- I am also sure that there are no guarantees in life. Rather than seeing that as only terrifying (although it is), I am working to see that as liberating and exciting, too.
But honesty is important to me. I'd much rather have someone say "there's something missing" / "I'm just not that into you" than repeat the trope of never calling again.
- Guys who like girls
- Ages 30–40
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You care about something in at least a slightly unironic way...
You like to read!
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