I'm back on OKC after taking a few months off to recover from an
illness that had me down an out from July through December of last
year, I've fully recovered now and I'm determied to have a
fantastic do-over summer and do all the fun things that I missed
last year. I'm an open minded mid-40's woman, professional, sweet,
loyal, loving, exploring and challenging my ideas of
openmindedness. and I would love to meet a playful, open and sexy
woman who has room in her life for a great friendship, and
What I’m doing with my life
I work in an industry where I try to help people live responsible,
safe and dignified lives. When I'm not being miss corporate
responsible, I like hanging onto the back of a Harley, dreaming of
Street Vibes, Redwood run, live music, cross country trips.
I’m really good at
Being empathetic and trying to understand people, which has also
forced me to get a lot better at creating and enforcing my own
boundaries. I'm good at entertaining and making people feel
comfortable. I love cooking a great breakfast! I try really hard to
be in a great frame of mind, and when I'm not I put all my effort
into determining the problem and fixing it. I've also been told I'm
patient to a fault, though sometimes not so patient with myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
My jade green eyes, my red hair, my curves. Talk to me for a sec,
you'll also notice my slight lisp, very Cindy Brady.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Pretty much all food is my friend, I love spicy and painful food,
thai, mexican, ethiopian, though I have nothing against a good
burger or a salad. I LOVE microbrewed beer, and great coffee. I
usually prefer mainstream movies but I'm often mildly disappointed
by them as well, its been awhile since I've seen a new movie once
that I want to see again, at least since Avatar. I totally love
live music, 80's cover bands, blues and rock. I'm looking for my
next favorite book - wanting to read "The Art of Racing in the
The six things I could never do without
good friends, a vehicle of some kind, my pets, good dancing music,
good coffee, microbrew beer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- Meeting people and making new friends. I ride the line inbetween
introvert and extrovert; I'm not a "follower" - I enjoy being part
of a group and I have no requirement to be the center of attention
however I can get irritated if someone takes the lead to often and
I'll speak up or leave to find my own happiness. I find myself very
drawn to what I call "catalyst personalities" - people who can make
a whole group of very different people all gel together. I'm not
much into astrology but I find myself drawn to the personality
types of Leo and Taurus, but also very much appreciate the lower
intensities of Cancer and Gemini. Feel free to ask me what my sign
is, though if you're still wearing your mood ring from the 70's, I
might have to laugh at you first, just a little.
- I think about my next motorcycle ride, I love the social aspect
of it. I dont ride on my own, though I hang on tight!
- I think about what my dog is dreaming about right now, looks
maybe like chasing squirrels.
- I miss having some close supportive open likeminded friends in my
- I think a lot about the weekend and deciding if I'd like it full
of activity or leaving it open to be in the moment, make some
breakfast in bed. I really need one day a week where I wake up with
a cup of coffee and think about how I'd like to spend my day.
- What I'm going to make for breakfast.
On a typical Friday night I am
sitting in commute traffic! YUCK! Hopefully on my way to a happy
hour, or a meetup with a good friend and/or my boyfriend. And
hopefully it will involve a good beer or a pretty girly drink.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Probably because of proximity of home and work, I havent made many
friends since living in the east bay and I'd like to change that.
I'm in an LTR with a great guy, but my main goal here is to meet
new friends first, and then if its a possiblity for that to go
further thats great and maybe finding a special best girlfriend.
You should message me if
You're open to meeting and getting to know a friendly and casual
woman, not alergic to dogs or cats, not high maintenance but can
clean up well and rise to special occasions.
Mostly looking for that great chemistry with someone, regardless if
its just friends or more, we wont know til we meet. Lets try to
make that happen soon!