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Elleforone

48 F Hayward, CA

My Details

Last Online
Aug 13
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Management
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm back on OKC after taking a few months off to recover from an illness that had me down an out from July through December of last year, I've fully recovered now and I'm determied to have a fantastic do-over summer and do all the fun things that I missed last year. I'm an open minded mid-40's woman, professional, sweet, loyal, loving, exploring and challenging my ideas of openmindedness. I have a wonderful boyfriend and I/we would love to meet a playful, open and sexy woman who has room in her life for a great friendship, and hopefully more.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work in an industry where I try to help people live responsible, safe and dignified lives. When I'm not being miss corporate responsible, I'm hanging onto the back of my boyfriends Harley, dreaming of Street Vibes, Redwood run, live music, cross country trips, and Sturgis in 2014. I would LOVE to meet someone to share riding and driving the RV with us!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being empathetic and trying to understand people, which has also forced me to get a lot better at creating and enforcing my own boundaries. I'm good at entertaining and making people feel comfortable. I love cooking a great breakfast! I try really hard to be in a great frame of mind, and when I'm not I put all my effort into determining the problem and fixing it. I've also been told I'm patient to a fault, though sometimes not so patient with myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My jade green eyes, my red hair, my curves. Talk to me for a sec, you'll also notice my slight lisp, very Cindy Brady.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Pretty much all food is my friend, I love spicy and painful food, thai, mexican, ethiopian, though I have nothing against a good burger or a salad. I LOVE microbrewed beer, and great coffee. I usually prefer mainstream movies but I'm often mildly disappointed by them as well, its been awhile since I've seen a new movie once that I want to see again, at least since Avatar. I totally love live music, 80's cover bands, blues and rock. I'm looking for my next favorite book - wanting to read "The Art of Racing in the Rain" and "The Hunger Games" series.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
good friends, a vehicle of some kind, my pets, good dancing music, good coffee, microbrew beer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- Meeting people and making new friends. I ride the line inbetween introvert and extrovert; I'm not a "follower" - I enjoy being part of a group and I have no requirement to be the center of attention however I can get irritated if someone takes the lead to often and I'll speak up or leave to find my own happiness. I find myself very drawn to what I call "catalyst personalities" - people who can make a whole group of very different people all gel together. I'm not much into astrology but I find myself drawn to the personality types of Leo and Taurus, but also very much appreciate the lower intensities of Cancer and Gemini. Feel free to ask me what my sign is, though if you're still wearing your mood ring from the 70's, I might have to laugh at you first, just a little.
- I think about my next motorcycle ride, I love the social aspect of it. I dont ride on my own, though I hang on tight!
- I think about what my dog is dreaming about right now, looks maybe like chasing squirrels.
- I miss having some close supportive open likeminded women friends in my life.
- I think a lot about the weekend and deciding if I'd like it full of activity or leaving it open to be in the moment, make some breakfast in bed. I really need one day a week where I wake up with a cup of coffee and think about how I'd like to spend my day.
- The difference between polyamory and polyfidelity, and the challenges of both.
- What I'm going to make for breakfast.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
sitting in commute traffic! YUCK! Hopefully on my way to a happy hour, or a meetup with a good friend and/or my boyfriend. And hopefully it will involve a good beer or a pretty girly drink.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Probably because of proximity of home and work, I havent made many friends since living in the east bay and I'd like to change that. I'm in an LTR with a great guy, OKCupid profile is Wolfie4you . I'm Bi, but my main goal here is to meet new friends first, and then if its a possiblity for that to go further thats great and maybe finding a special best girlfriend. In an ideal situation we'd be able to bring these relationships together if everyone is happy and comfortable with it.
I’m looking for
  • Bi girls only
  • Ages 36–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're open to meeting and getting to know a friendly and casual couple, ride motorcycles (esp. cruisers), not alergic to dogs or cats, not high maintenance but can clean up well and rise to special occasions.
If you've ever considered that maybe your ideal relationship could be comprised of two people, each bringing something unique to the relationship (examples - I like to dance and live music, he's creative, artistic and a history nut, I like being spontaneous and shopping, he's task driven and is more analytical).
Mostly looking for that great chemistry with someone, regardless if its just friends or more, we wont know til we meet. Lets try to make that happen soon!