38 San Antonio, TX
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My self-summary
I'm kinky, poly, and bisexual and looking for a lover or submissive. I am in a current committed relationship with a fabulous man (now on OK Cupid, handle Gribeau) and all first meetings involve either him or a friend coming with me. I love to read, swim, go for walks, and enjoy the sun. What can I say, I've filled out so many of these profiles I don't know what to say on them anymore...

I am absentminded and borderline OCD. Geeky Renaissance faire junkie, I usually go to Sherwood Faire in the spring and TRF in the fall. I do Scarborough if we have the time and funds. I like to sew, crochet, craft in general. I like to go to the movies, hang out at home, work on a new toy for the kinky toybag, chat online.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm currently working for a large medical supplies company as a temp, hoping it will go permanent. I have a dog (a Boxer) and two cats. While I would like to go to school sometime to finish up college and get a degree, I don't know that it will happen soon. I'm at a point in life where I am know what I want but I still need to set goals, and with help from friends and family (mostly supportive love but the occasional kick in the ass) reach those goals.

I'm a mom, and I sometimes have my daughter for visitation.
I’m really good at
I am intelligent, creative, and non-artistic. I don't sing, draw, paint, or sculpt. What do I create? Writing and poetry, mostly. I'm great at basic crochet patterns, and I can normally figure things out with a pattern (I have a king sized afghan that I crocheted) and I like making snowflakes with teeny tiny crochet hooks. I'm awesome with numbers (love math) and have a pretty good memory.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've got very long, straight hair, and vibrant blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love science fiction and fantasy, and read voraciously. Favorite authors include Robert Heinlein, Douglas Adams, Isaac Asimov, Robert Lynn Asprin, Orson Scott Card, Jacqueline Carey, Terry Pratchett.

I love action adventure movies, sci fi, fantasy, animated movies, the occasional rom-com, musicals and zombie flicks. Resident Evil, The Fifth Element, Cinderella, The Little Mermaid, Up, Easter Parade, Singin' in the Rain.

I love Big Bang Theory and The Walking Dead, I like FaceOff, Arrow, Elementary. I will watch Warehouse 13 (having lost my place in it last season I'm no longer a committed follower), Lost Girl, Haven. I like So You Think You Can Dance (unsure if it's still in production) and America's Got Talent and The Voice.

In the car I listen to country music or "The best of the 80's, 90's, and today". I'm not opposed to much music, though I admit I don't have exposure to things like jazz, classical, opera, gangsta rap. I'm an Ani DiFranco fan, and I like No Doubt, Gwen Stefani, Gorillaz, Taylor Swift, an eclectic mix.

Food. Yes, please. There isn't much food I don't like. As my waistline can attest. I love exotic cuisine, like Indian, Middle Eastern, Greek, anything I can find, really. I can make a wicked curry, I suck at stir fry but I cook it anyway. I eat Italian, French, German, Chinese, Thai, Korean (mmmmm bulgogi!). I love sushi. But down home american cooking is great too.
The six things I could never do without
Feline companionship
Water (to drink and clean)
Books (voracious reader)
Carbohydrates (I'm a carb junkie. Pasta, bread, rice, oh my!)
A way to write my thoughts

One thing I COULD do without: Clothes. I'll make due with sitting on a towel when it's too hot to sit on furniture without sweating, but other than that I'd rather go naked most of the time.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Recently I've thought a lot about the nature of good, and how to raise our children to be good, moral people while encouraging their abilities to make intelligent choices.
On a typical Friday night I am
Chillin' at home, surfing the web, chatting with friends and relaxing for the weekend, making plans for my Saturday and Sunday.