Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


40 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 29–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 24
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Poorly), German (Poorly)

Similar Users

My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I could do these self-promotional blurbs for my friends easily, but doing it for myself is vexing. I suppose because I'm humble and don't like the idea of seeming self-absorbed.

Maybe a third-person approach will grease the wheels here...

He's an interesting sort of chap.

Polite, well-mannered and considerate, you can bring him anywhere and your mother will like him.

He's very fond of drinking kefir and green tea while reading the news online. He's kind of addicted to Business Insider.

He's a reliably Democratic voter.

He's had his brushes with death in overambitious wilderness adventures, these days preferring to navigate the landscape of ideas.

He's been playing guitar since age 10 and remains a voracious listener of rock, blues, jazz and classical. He can also play drums, bass and piano, though he mostly just plays guitar these days.

He's a film buff and one of his favorite activities has been serving as an indie film festival juror here in the city.

A group of well-meaning solipsist classmates in high school voted him Most Likely to Exist.

Intelligent people tend to appreciate his sense of humor and find him a good conversationalist (how's that for self-serving.)
He tends to be gregarious and doesn't take himself too seriously, in spite of the foregoing.

He is analytical and also creative. Passionate and also pragmatic. Open-minded and sentimental.

He loves to stay abreast of cosmology and eagerly awaits the peer-review results concerning the finding of gravity waves this past March. If the finding holds, it will be the first physical evidence supporting a theory that may entail our living in a multiverse, possibly one with another you and him in it. And how is that not mind-blowing?

He was born and raised in S. FL and goes back there several times a year. It's lovely in the Winter.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Music licensing while getting out of real estate management/sales/acquisitions and going back to school to study marketing with a focus in advertising.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Guitar. Karaoke.
Seeing the big picture.
Appreciating the finer details.
Waxing philosophical.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Broad shoulders.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I enjoy reading about Economics, Advertising, Music Theory, Physics, Cosmology, History and Philosophy, among other things. I don't read much fiction these days, but am looking forward to getting back into it eventually.

Music: Zeppelin, Beatles, Sabbath, Rush, Floyd, Donovan, Fiona Apple, Chopin, DeBussy, Ravi Shankar, Miles Davis, Coltrane, Joao Gilberto, Stan Getz, Phillip Glass, Metallica, AC/DC, Elliott Smith, Radiohead, Chet Baker, Howlin' Wolf....

Movies: The Big Lebowski, Lost in Translation, Sideways, The Departed, Star Wars, Young Frankenstein, Barry Lyndon, Mulholland Drive, Clockwork Orange, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Punch Drunk Love, Jackie Brown, Star Trek, Life of Brian....

TV: Freaks and Geeks, Firefly, South Park, Family Guy, Community, Mad Men, Star Trek, Battlestar Galactica, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report, Louie, Hardball....

Food: I'll 'ave the lot.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, friends, music, books, vacations & stimulating conversation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The word "textiles" sounds absolutely nothing like what it means. Every time someone uses that word I have to look it up in my brain and substitute the definition for the word. (I wouldn't say that I think about this "A LOT.")

People I care about. Politics. Weekend plans. Cosmology. Economics. Philosophy. Music. Problems that I need to solve. Funny memories. "Deep Thoughts."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends for dinner and/or drinks, or in catching up on my shows.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I prefer tulips on an organ to flowers on a piano.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You think we'd find each other attractive and have a great time chatting in a bar, watching a movie, or taking a stroll.