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24 F Tucson, AZ

My Details

Last Online
Jul 20
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Rather not say
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Turkish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am a genderqueer femme, not a lesbian, but incredibly queer.
I love reading (mostly nonfiction), writing, shopping, dressing up, intellectual conversation, hiking, going out to dinner and having my picture taken.
I am an unapologetic pervert and a shameless oversharer.
I have a ridiculously extensive wardrobe, 80% of which is from the Salvation Army, and more makeup than most drag queens.
I am inherently kinky, absolutely nonmonogamous, and usually polyamorous.
I am in a wonderful open poly relationship with my girlfriend, Tucsonlezbrarian.
I am fairly well traveled and hope to see as much of the world as I can.
I have six tattoos, a dandelion, a seahorse, a Promethean torch, scales of justice, a sheepshank knot, and a question mark. I will get more at some point.
I have a beautiful group of friends and a kinky family that I adore.
I have a wonderful relationship with my parents, who are two of the most supportive and generous people I know.
I try my best to be a dedicated advocate of social justice, and to use my many privileges for good, rather than evil.
What I’m doing with my life
I just moved to Tucson, started a new job, and am trying to meet people and have an interesting and useful life.

"The combination of glamour and activism often confuses people, but I'm of the firm belief that it's not only possible, but preferable, to change the world while covered in glitter."
I’m really good at
Writing, slam poetry, remembering useless minutiae, public speaking, aftercare, being a good friend, thrifting and walking in high heels.
The first things people usually notice about me
My shoes, if they are particularly fabulous that day. Or my red hair.
The six things I could never do without
Large quantities of water, a flat place to sleep, physical contact, a feeling of usefulness, my biological and kinky families.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Poetry, sex, bodies, social structures, history, the fictional people I create to entertain myself, kink, gender, my clothes, other people's clothes, politics
On a typical Friday night I am
Having my date night with my girlfriend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm fat. Not voluptuous, not curvy, not a BBW. Just fat. And there is nothing wrong with that.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 18–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You are enthusiastically nonmongamous, interested in gender and sexuality, open-minded, curious and willing to try anything once. If you have a Fetlife, I'll show you mine if you show me yours. ;)

Also, I am nonmonogamous and poly, which means I have no problem getting involved with someone who is in a relationship, but there are conditions. All parties must be informed and consenting, and everything must be handled in an open, honest, and ethical manner. I don't do secrecy, lying, or "discretion."