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Emma_74

45 / F / gay / Single

Sheffield, United Kingdom

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
5' 11" (1.81m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Capricorn and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Kids
Pets
Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Other (Poorly)

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I am shy, funny, and amateurish.

My Self-Summary

oh heck, I hate writing about myself so here's one o' them memes....

Heyup!

My name is

Emma

I am

asexual, aunt, big sister, daughter, different, female-identified, femme-ish, friend, full-time, gay-curious, gender dysphoric, heterosextranswoman, human, in transition, intelligent, introvert, leopard, little sister, MTF, male-assigned, miss, misunderstood, myself, none of the above, none of your business, not sure of others, oblivious, out-ish, quiet, readable, shy, transfemale, transwoman, wannabe

What I’m doing with my life

Mostly making changes....
But right this instant, I'm wondering what you QuickMatchers are not seeing from my profile.

I’m really good at

fiddling with things

The first things people usually notice about me

how quiet and in fact how painfully shy I am, though they have to be perceptive, since I'm hardly going to shout it, am I?

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Ooh food! When it comes to eating, it's my favourite thing! I love Italian and the UK interpretation of Chinese food, though the real deal sounds a bit scary from what some friends in work tell me. I have also started eating more spicy stuff than I ever used to.

I have a fairly unsophisticated taste in books - Terry Pratchett, JK Rowling, Philip Pullman, Louise Rennison and have just been reading Stephenie Meyer's Twilight saga books.

As regards music, this is what is currently on this lappy, but isn't necessarily a favourite: Faithless, Mott The Hoople, Black Eyed Peas, ABC, Arctic Monkeys, Avril Lavigne, Badly Drawn Boy, Beth Nielsen Chapman, Bhundu Boys, Bob Dylan, Coldplay, Counting Crows, Dragster, Duffy, Evelyn Evelyn, Golden Earring, Green Day, Allan Smethurst , Bill Bailey, Les Barker, Eurythmics, Joan Jett, Keith Burton, Kirsty MacColl , Let Go, Liz Phair, The Kingsmen, Namoli Brennet, Oestrogenix, Orchestra Baobab, Pink Floyd, Prince Buster , Razorlight, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Richard Thompson, Erik Satie, Scouting For Girls, Shakira, Skatalites, Chris Difford, Department S, Desmond Dekker and the Aces, Ian Dury And The Blockheads, Jonah Lewie, King Kurt, Lene Lovich, Madness, Nick Lowe, Tenpole Tudor, The Belle Stars, The Damned, The Members, Theatre Of Hate, Tracey Ullman, Wreckless Eric, The Magic Numbers, The Pogues, The Script, The Strokes, The Ting Tings, The Verve, Joan Armourplating, The Wombats, Vampire Weekend, 999, Billy Idol, Blondie, Bow Wow Wow, Buzzcocks, Cockney Rejects, Flying Lizards, Penetration, Ramones, Stiff Little Fingers, Talking Heads, The Banned, The Ruts, The Skids, The Stiffs, The Stranglers, Vice Squad, Devo, Dexys Midnight Runners, Dr Feelgood, Generation X, Killing Joke, Magazine, New Model Army, Public Image Ltd, The Tom Robinson Band, The Vapors, Angelic Upstarts, Simple Minds, Spear Of Destiny, The Rezillos, The Specials, XTC, REM

Favourite movies of late are Mamma Mia and No Country for Old Men (see, I'm full of contrasts!)

The six things I could never do without

t'internet, nice shoes, me pills, my sister (the shoes count as two things and my sister is worth two!)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

the future. And sometimes the past.

On a typical Friday night I am

one day older than Thursday

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

OK, I'll fess up, I'm a transsexual woman.

In addition, I want to confess that I'm perplexed by the many people who say "message me if you want to know; it's too private to admit here"? The question isn't asking that, it's asking what you *are* prepared to admit! Grrr!

You should message me if

....you can string together something marginally more interesting than a one liner or even a one worder! And can spell.