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36 • Southampton, UK • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 32–46
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 15
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Mostly vegan
- Atheism, and very serious about it
- Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Strictly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), German (Fluently), French (Poorly)
I'm a huge music fan (mainly indie/alternative), though I don't go to quite as many gigs as I used to and these days I mostly listen to audio books, as well as science and current affairs podcasts. I haven't got a science background but I love learning new things and I like to know what's going on in the world. Last year I completed an online physics course (for fun) and I've been brushing up on my French. I'm a bit of a nerd.
Other things that keep me busy are drumming - I'm a member of an all-female African drumming group -, tai chi and yoga. But I also spend a lot of time reading and I always welcome a bit of peace and quiet.
I've got a 30-year-old New Forest pony, whom I've owned since I was 10. I am vaguely vegan (I can't resist chocolate and cake) and I care about the environment and animal welfare.
Movies: Leaving Las Vegas, Melancholia, Dancer in the Dark, The Third Man
TV shows: Dr Who, Buffy, Game of Thrones
Music: All-time favourites: Nick Cave & the Bad Seeds, Pulp, the Smiths, the Stone Roses, Faith No More, Patrick Wolf, British Sea Power, Smog. Currently listening to: Swans, Black Lips, Goldfrapp and Babymetal.
Food: Indian, anything vegan
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