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36 Southampton, UK Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 32–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:59am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Atheism, and very serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm a very active, outdoorsy person. I'm always out and about at weekends, either hiking, horse-riding, cycling or doing conservation work for the National Trust. During the week I go running at lunchtime.

I'm a huge music fan (mainly indie/alternative), though I don't go to quite as many gigs as I used to and these days I mostly listen to audio books, as well as science and current affairs podcasts. I haven't got a science background but I love learning new things and I like to know what's going on in the world. Last year I completed an online physics course (for fun) and I've been brushing up on my French. I'm a bit of a nerd.

Other things that keep me busy are drumming - I'm a member of an all-female African drumming group -, tai chi and yoga. But I also spend a lot of time reading and I always welcome a bit of peace and quiet.

I've got a 30-year-old New Forest pony, whom I've owned since I was 10. I am vaguely vegan (I can't resist chocolate and cake) and I care about the environment and animal welfare.
What I’m doing with my life
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Having convinced myself in my twenties that I would never end up in a job I don't enjoy, I'm now doing a job I don't enjoy. Such is life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Spelling, grammar and appropriate use of the word "literally".
The first things people usually notice about me
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My height.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: anything by Haruki Murakami, Narziss and Goldmund, Life of Pi, currently re-reading Neil Gaiman's Sandman

Movies: Leaving Las Vegas, Melancholia, Dancer in the Dark, The Third Man

TV shows: Dr Who, Buffy, Game of Thrones

Music: All-time favourites: Nick Cave & the Bad Seeds, Pulp, the Smiths, the Stone Roses, Faith No More, Patrick Wolf, British Sea Power, Smog. Currently listening to: Swans, Black Lips, Goldfrapp and Babymetal.

Food: Indian, anything vegan
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The great outdoors
The Guardian
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If I should move to the other end of the country... or go travelling... or go back to university... or take a year out to write a book... too many options to choose from!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Resting my creaking bones.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not interested in having children. I haven't got a maternal bone in my body.
You should message me if
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You live in or near Southampton.