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31 M Toronto, Ontario, CA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Working on Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Fluently), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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INFJ. Empty-ing vessel. Amoralist. Raskolnikovian. Romantic.

"We need to live in a state of suspended animation, like a work of art, in a state of enchantment. We have to succeed in loving so greatly that we live outside of time, detached."
-- from La Dolce Vita
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I moved to Toronto last year for a pure math PhD program but I lack focus. I'm a vagrant in random cities like Montreal and Seattle sometimes. I'm back to doing responsible things for now.

I want to create; I'm presently in a state of contemplative inaction to that end. Existence has many layers, and to remain in the shallow ones is a sickness. I know nothing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Empathy, beautiful moments, not sleeping, vanishing to elsewhere, dark places, wonder, partings.

"Break what must be broken, once for all, that's all, and take the suffering on oneself."
-- from Crime and Punishment
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't know. Probably height, or gloominess.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Peppermint Candy, Secret Sunshine, Maborosi, Enter the Void, Martha Marcy May Marlene, Blue Valentine, Hunger, Lost Highway, Vivre sa Vie, Solaris, La Dolce Vita, Tender is the Night, Women in Love, Madame Bovary, Crime and Punishment, The Stranger, 1984, Dragonlance Chronicles, Thus Spoke Zarathustra, Principles of Mathematical Analysis, Panda Bear, Death Grips, Austra, Braids, Beach House, Vampire Weekend, John Maus, Aphex Twin, Prefuse 73, Grizzly Bear, Interpol, Ratatat, Nobuo Uematsu, Mad Men, Cowboy Bebop, Daria, Peep Show, Twin Peaks, Xenogears, Earthbound, Secret of Mana, Final Fantasy, StarCraft, Diablo
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. feeling, 2. meaning, 3. possibility, 4. desire, 5. dark, 6. memories
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Futile actions, the various forms of slavery, escape. People I love. How to live, whether to live.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Exploring from place to place in whichever urban area.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't feel feelings anymore.

No, I do sometimes.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to add some meaning or connection to each other's lives. Existence is lonely, and brief.