Empathy-o-matic
31 Sheffield, UK
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Hi everybody.

Most of the time I am a (fairly) normal guy. I work in a normal office and do normal guy things. I like computers and technology. I love science fiction, nights out and other typical man things. I date women and keep my real gender identity largely to myself. I believe in positive thinking and I am always looking on the bright side. I believe it is important to leave the world a better place than you found it. I am very playful and friendly. I think I am very creative and I have a wild imagination. I am also very sensitive and vulnerable, people can hurt me easily with the things they say so please be nice. I am driven by love, empathy and compassion.

What people don't usually know about me is that I fantasize about being a girl and I secretly want a boyfriend. I get very passive and submissive when I am dressed up and I love the thought of being seen as a girl by others. I like making other people happy and I want to do all the things girlfriends do for their boyfriends.

I've always wanted to explore this aspect of my sexuality with other people but I have always been too embarrassed and shy to share it with anyone. Then one day I decided "what the heck," It's my life, why not try and make my fantasies become a reality. So here I am.

I would love to meet someone dominant who will tell me what to do and help me come out of my shell. I don't really have the confidence to do the things I've always dreamed about doing on my own so I think I would like someone to help push me in the right direction.

A note to girls.

Yes I do like girls too.

I'm usually a very kind, gentle and considerate person although I choose to express myself in many different ways. I only like pretending to be a girl occasionally but it's kind of important to me that my partner embraces my gender identity.

Jess.

xxx

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What I’m doing with my life
I run an IT company.

I am also trying to be more open and honest about my sexuality and gender identity.

I am looking to meet guys to fulfill my fantasies with.
I’m really good at
Writing, politics, computers, activism, compassion.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm very smart and well spoken. I have lots of interesting things to say.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The six things I could never do without
Love, kindness, freedom, my family, my friends, fun.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The way things ought to be rather than the way things are.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out in town with my mates. Every Friday night without fail.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
See above.
You should message me if
You are kind.
You are honest.
You have lots of EMPATHY.
You are intelligent.
You like people who occasionally cross dress
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