ABOUT ME

I am intelligent, passionate, polyamorous and Dominant. I am married (in "poly" speak, that would be my committed primary relationship) and My wife knows of my other relationships.

Why am I here? I'm looking for friendship, sparring partners, wild-assed crushes and thinking folks.

I live an open and honest life, but I still believe in discretion and integrity. A very dear friend said to me a while ago "you are one of the most alive people I know". That was just about the nicest thing anyone has said to me.

Managing a very successful health care business. Supporting people. Writing. Teaching. Spending time with friends and lovers. Eating (I'm a foodie), drinking (I'm a drinkie). Playing the bass guitar at a very novice level, but I still can rock some! Collecting vintage cars (most 1:8 scale, some 1:24 scale, some 1:1 scale). Growing, enjoying, loving, laughing.

managing people, managing money, spanking certain people, practicing law, teaching, sexy role play (with certain other people), shooting, driving, parenting.

I can tell a syrah from a cabernet, a double maduro from a colorado, a 20 gauge from a 12, and a hawk from a handsaw.

My eyes. My beard. My size. But more so, the lovely woman I have on my arm (usually).

Too Too many. Ask me.

The Magnificent Seven and The Godfather (all 3) are at the top of my desert island list.

Getting healthy. Staying healthy.
Wild transgressive sex.
Wild transgressive teaching.

Making really good tea.
Applying legal ethics rules to real life.
Cigars. (Bill Cosby: Cigars is vegetables, you know?)
Getting back to my best shooting form.
Bass lines.

Making lots of money and giving away lots of money.

Out to dinner with my beloveds. Or resting up from the week past. Or practicing my bass.

My favorite love song begins "There's a Mexican dead on a power line/He's deader than yesterday's Communion wine."

If you are patient.

If you have a poem you love that you want to share with me, or

If you are any or all of the following: Curious about B/D/S/M, polyamory life or finding your place in this world. If you are (any or all of): interested in health care policy, polyamorous, smart, a good shotgunner, want to teach me some funky bass tricks, want to be a good shotgunner, in need of a chicago-area drinking buddy, submissive or if you like to chat, or

Hell. Just if you want to chat. that might be enough.