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58 Elgin, IL Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–68
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:10pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Rather not say
Mostly non-monogamous
Has a kid
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Yiddish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

I am intelligent, passionate, polyamorous and Dominant. I am married (in "poly" speak, that would be my committed primary relationship) and My wife knows of my other relationships.

Why am I here? I'm looking for friendship, sparring partners, wild-assed crushes and thinking folks.

I live an open and honest life, but I still believe in discretion and integrity. A very dear friend said to me a while ago "you are one of the most alive people I know". That was just about the nicest thing anyone has said to me.

Yes that is me in my photo. Yes it's old and yes you cannot see my face. If you felt it necessary to comment on these things we probably are not a good match.

If you came to me on a Quickmatch, hey, get the full EmperorP experience. Go look at my profile!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Managing a very successful health care business. Supporting people. Writing. Teaching. Spending time with friends and lovers. Eating (I'm a foodie), drinking (I'm a drinkie). Playing the bass guitar at a very novice level, but I still can rock some! Collecting vintage cars (most 1:8 scale, some 1:24 scale, some 1:1 scale). Growing, enjoying, loving, laughing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
managing people, managing money, spanking certain people, practicing law, teaching, sexy role play (with certain other people), shooting (I'm a rated competitive shotgunner), driving, parenting.

I can tell a syrah from a cabernet, a double maduro from a colorado, a 20 gauge from a 12, and a hawk from a handsaw.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes. My beard. My size. But more so, the lovely woman I have on my arm (usually).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Too Too many. Ask me.

The Magnificent Seven and The Godfather (all 3) are at the top of my desert island list.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Recently, Pandora Radio, my new Internet radios and my Cloud music file. I have about 4000 vinyl albums (if you don't know what those are, maybe we should talk!) that I never listen to any more, and I love digital music.

Ooops. that's ONE.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Getting healthy. Staying healthy.
Wild transgressive sex.
Wild transgressive teaching.

Making really good tea.
Applying legal ethics rules to real life.
Cigars. (Cigars is vegetables, you know?)
Getting back to my best shooting form.
Bass lines.

Making lots of money and giving away lots of money.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out to dinner with my beloveds. Or resting up from the week past. Or practicing my bass.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My favorite love song begins "There's a Mexican dead on a power line/He's deader than yesterday's Communion wine."
You should message me if
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If you are patient.

If you have a poem you love that you want to share with me, or

If you are any or all of the following: Curious about B/D/S/M, polyamory life or finding your place in this world. If you are (any or all of): interested in health care policy, polyamorous, smart, a good shotgunner, want to teach me some funky bass tricks, want to be a good shotgunner, in need of a chicago-area drinking buddy, submissive or if you like to chat, or

Hell. Just if you want to chat. that might be enough.