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EmrysTernal

27 M Austin, TX

I’m looking for

  • All who like bi men
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a warm-hearted ultra-nerd, game designer, and kinkster seeking vibrant shared-interest-driven friendships that optionally might develop into a form of ethical non-monogamy founded upon deep mutual respect. Some would call that a "queerplatonic" relationship, which has become my new favorite word. I'm also in an open polyamorous relationship with CoronerCountess and we're both pansexuals actively seeking other romantic and sexual partners.

Notable Links:
ATTN Quickmatch Users: My Profile Page
BTW: I'm looking for a roommate.
Most Recent Laugh: Milton Berle vs Statler & Waldorf
Listening to: Metroid Prime 'Hot Machine, Cold Surface'
Basics of the Kink/BDSM Scene
ATTN Newbies: OKCupid Do's and Don'ts
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've found that the meaning of life is to find thoughtful worthwhile people in the cosmic infinite, befriend them, and bring joy into their lives. Throughout my life, I've experienced some profound spiritual events (each one a non-religious contemplative renaissance) which have culminated in making me 100% certain of my purpose in life. I'm a "friendly solipsist" variant agnostic atheist.

I have a Bachelors Degree in Computer Science (with a Math minor). I work doing what I love (game design) and when you love your work, you never work a day in your life. I aspire to become a game design pioneer and master in my specialty.

Most of my social life involves the the Austin-area nerd scene and kink/BDSM scene. If either of those two pique your interests, you should probably message me right now.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
1. Keeping a cool head in adversity.
2. Putting my all into each of my passions.
3. Being decisive when the need is dire.
4. Game design instincts and intuition.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
...that I have really long hair that naturally drapes into curls, that I have a beard, and that my eyes are really striking and seem to change color.

Also, apparently I'm adorable when I'm flustered (such is pretty-much all the time when I'm meeting a potential romantic/sexual interest, but is particularly true when I'm shown affection of any sort). Consequently, people notice that I have dimples. According to one person, in the right circumstances my cutesy demeanor and body language will fall away to reveal a confident and sultry side.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Discworld series (Terry Pratchett), Another Fine Myth series (Robert Asprin), Phule's Company series (Robert Asprin), Redwall series (Brian Jacques), and the Rats of NIMH series (Robert C. O'Brien and Jane Leslie Conly).

Movies: The Wizard of Speed and Time, Sleepless in Seattle (really, any movie with Meg Ryan and/or Tom Hanks... except Mazes and Monsters), The Truman Show, anything by Ghibli, and anything by Satoshi Kon.

Shows: NCIS, House, M*A*S*H, The Daily Show, The Young Turks, Doctor Who (except for the sexist episodes Steven Moffat writes/produces), Law and Order: SVU, Avatar: The Last Airbender, and Star Trek: Voyager.

Music:♪♫♪ atmospheric music, ambient music, orchestral music (all kinds, including single-instrument), videogame OSTs, and anime OSTs.
Examples: Allegro Cantabile, All That I Want.

Food: My chicken broccoli cheese rice casserole, Milk Chocolate (of all kinds, including chocolate milk), American Buffet, Chinese Buffet, Bacon Cheeseburger, Pizza, ...pretty much anything really except seafood.

Anime (excluding movies): Detective Conan (Case Closed), Clannad (et al), Kanon, Pita-Ten, Fullmetal Alchemist, Dennou Coil (Cyber Coil), The Melancholy of Haruhi Suzumiya, Lucky Star, and Ghost in the Shell: Stand Alone Complex (et al).

Comedians: Gabriel Iglesias, Eddie Izzard, Lewis Black, George Carlin, and Victor Borge (not necessarily in that order).

Games: Chrono Trigger, Shadow of the Colossus, Metroid Prime Trilogy, Secret of Mana, Portal 1 & 2, Terraria, Jamestown, D&D 3.5e, Magic the Gathering, Artemis, Killer Bunnies... too many to count really. I'm a HUGE gamer (being a game designer does that), so if you have a problem with videogames in general (or would never play them with me, cooperatively or otherwise) then we're not likely to become friends.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Assuming a "lonely island" scenario with an infinite amount of the perishables (like batteries) and givens (like indoor plumbing):
1. A close friend (maybe you could be that friend?).
2. My recipe for chicken broccoli cheese rice casserole (it's that good).
3. Videogames, preferably stuff with high or infinite replayability (and cooperative play for item #1 :D ).
4. A large thick blanket with a giant pillow (sleep is awesome).
5. Internet access in some capacity (even if it's just enough to check my email and send emails).
6. Some kind of dictaphone (to keep a log of my experiences).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...lately, how disgusting men are in-general on here. They near-universally respond to rejection like entitled children. Here's a link to some statistics on the matter ( http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-race-affects-whether-people-write-you-back/ ). I don't pull that crap and I respond to every message I receive by the end of the next day. If I message you and you're not interested, I would appreciate it if you were to respond saying so and why. I won't bite.

Also, I spend a lot of mental effort on
game design, nerd culture, fencing, battle gaming, anime/manga, spirituality, philosophy, ethics, politics, magic, religion, sexuality, sensuality, videogames, and tabletop RPGs... oh man do I think a lot about those. I've been working on this custom campaign setting for D&D for years now that's essentially "What if D&D advanced 3000 years into the future?"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I work into the evening but I have Fridays and Saturdays off, so I'm usually at home or with CoronerCountess. I don't drink, so "going out to bars" doesn't appeal to me.

My ideal Friday night is talking into the late hours with someone special about various intellectual topics. ^_^ I thrive on opportunities to expound and absorb new ideas.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
(...in an online dating profile... currently.)

I'm lonely. Relationships are nice, but close friendships based on shared interests would be better for me right now.

This profile is a very personal representation of who I am inside. That should say a lot about me. For most people, whether or not they'll click on my profile all boils down to the attractiveness of my main profile photo... and that's sad. I don't even recall the last time I've received a single message that wasn't a reply (and even the ones that are replies only happen once in a blue moon). I can't recall the last time someone looked at this profile and thought "Hey, this guy seems neat. I should message him." If all that you see here is just... not attractive enough for you to reach out to me... then what the hell am I even doing here?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Generally-speaking, just... message me. You will most certainly brighten my day. You should especially message me if you fit any of the following:

1. You remember the last thing that made you laugh so hard you nearly cried. (By all means, please tell me what it was!)

2. You've answered 200+ of my matching questions, we have a match rating of 80% or more, and we have an enemy rating of 20% or less.

3. You're kinky or curious (even if only remotely) about kink or BDSM. It's always awesome to chat with kinky or kink-curious people, even if we'll never actually play. I'll be happy to point you in the right direction to learn more about the lifestyle. Let me make one thing abundantly clear though: We're NOT going to have genitals-to-genitals intercourse (even with protection). No exceptions. Kinky play and an evening of mutual pleasure is another matter, but no intercourse. My sexual health is of paramount importance to me, so if you're looking for a "one-night stand", no thanks.

4. You're coincidentally a bisexual/pansexual woman that's interested in me in for potentially more than friendship. My S.O. CoronerCountess is having difficulty meeting other women, and we help eachother in our open/poly dynamic whenever we can, so ideally you'd be interested in meeting her as well. Whatever happens then, happens. (This is definitely NOT a "unicorn" thing or a "threesome" thing unless of-course you explicitly show interest in something like that, and even then we're not likely to be okay with that.)