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Emsikles

26 F Southampton, UK

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 18–35
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Apr 19
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Acting. Writing. Films. Theatre. Literature. Psychology. Art. Photography. Guitar. Piano. Equality. Humanity. Helping. Learning. Dreaming. Travelling. Discovering.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
To keep it short...... I used to swim professionally, then I quit and went to university. I did a sport science degree and was about to go and start my masters in clinical psychology, when I changed my mind. Partly because I fell sick, but in reality because falling sick made me realise all I've ever wanted to do was act. Cut to a couple of years later when I finally recovered, I started acting.. and that's where I am now!

So I spend my days filming or auditioning, or.... right in this very moment, working a lot of hours in my day job to save up. I'm very flexible and have a lot of different areas of my life I focus on depending on what's happening at that time. Acting, writing, travelling, charity work and spirituality are where my energy is most of the time. I basically want to do everything and go everywhere but am yet to find a way of being an octopus.

I'm not someone who needs to be in a relationship; I'm very independent and like to keep it that way even when I'm involved. Similarly I'm only interested in a partner who is in the same mind set - I've had far too many relationships where I have had to "fix" them, or they've "needed" me in order for them to be happy. That is the role I play in most friendships I have, and so I have learnt that in my romantic relationship, I very much need it to be equal. I believe love is about helping each other grow, not preventing it. :)

Mostly right now I am feeling the need to meet more driven and creative people, as working in my day job doesn't half lack intellectual or inspiring conversation; if you are capable of talking about something more than how wasted you got last night, we're on the right track! ;)

p.s if you love Gillian Anderson, Kate Winslet, Sasha Alexander or Caterina Scorsone, I am about 99.6% sure I already like you.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Honesty. Finding a good side to any situation. Laughing at really inappropriate moments. Helping people. Not sleeping. Finding beauty in unexpected places. Procrastination. Multitasking. Creativity. Leaving voicemails that are so long that the automated voice tells me to stop talking. Swimming. Spontaneity. Constantly taking photos. Midnight walks along the beach. Road-trips. Caring. Forgiving. Hoping. Making my dreams realities.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Rizzoli And Isles. Private Practice. The X Files. Grey's Anatomy. Castle.

Gillian Anderson, Sasha Alexander, Kate Winslet and Caterina Scorsone represent everything I aspire to be.

I have far too many favourite films to even begin. They tend to usually be based on a true story, or have a storyline which has the ability to inspire in some way; I love films which stand for something. But that doesn't mean I don't love an easy watch every now and then. Notting Hill being a (not so) secret guilty pleasure. ;)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Not taking this literally, of course, so I will say -- The ability to learn, the ability to write, love, creativity, and positivity.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I really don't do typical, I am not much of a planner. I've learnt not to be! I take each week as it comes.
You should message me if
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‎"The only people for me are the mad ones; the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved and desirous of everything at the same time. The ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing but burn-burn-burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars; in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes 'awww!' "

I should probably also note here that in real life I am far less serious than this makes me sound. I mean.. the complete opposite. I pretty much never stop laughing. I just think it makes sense to be honest on here about who we are and what's important to us, so that we can meet people we'd connect with- is that not what we're all here for?