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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 19
Queer, Pansexual
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Atheism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Russian (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First things first: I'm in a pretty serious long term polyamorous relationship with my partner Nikko. If that's not what you're looking for, that's cool, but I'm probably not right for you. Also, I identify more as queer than bisexual. What I mean to say is yes, I probably (possibly) AM attracted to your gender. Especially if you're non-binary.

I'm an avant-garde composer, carpenter, cocktail geek, dancer, world-class cuddler, domme/occasional switch, and possible hipster. (I dunno. I like weird music and wear a lot of black skinny jeans.)
What I’m doing with my life
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I work as a carpenter to make ends meet, but my real passion is for weird-ass experimental "classical" music. Right now I'm editing a choral piece and planning a piece for chamber orchestra and dancers. My goal is to be a freelance composer full time by my mid 30's.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a damn good composer.
I'm a communication geek, and I get along best with other very good communicators.
I sing purdy sometimes.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair. It's usually some shade of very bright red. Honestly, aside from that, people don't tend to notice me at first. Usually folks take a notice once they've known me for a while and I come out of my shell.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors: Ann Patchett, Barbara Kingsolver, Octavia Butler, Tom Robbins, Oliver Sachs, Temple Grandin

Movies: Anything Miyazaki, Anything Pixar. I'm very childish about my movies. The Brothers Bloom was lovely. I adored The Reader because of the goshdarnamazing Nico Muhly score. Dean Spanley was enchanting.

Music: Hindemith, Stravinsky, Purcell, Messiaen, Ravel, Morten Lauridsen, David Lang, Renee Favand-See, Owen Pallett, Cloud Cult, Passion Pit, Fuck Buttons, The Knife, Bell, Sunset Rubdown, The Mountain Goats, Okkervil River, Andrew Bird, Joanna Newsom, Beirut, Dirty Projectors, Parenthetical Girls, Stars, The Portland Cello Project, Colour Revolt, of Montreal, Tullycraft, My Brightest Diamond, Tune-Yards, Belle & Sebastian, Agent Ribbons

Food: PB&J Fries from potato champion, Pad Kee Mao from Lemongrass, ramen from Boke Bowl, anything from Por Que No, numerous food carts, Bamboo Sushi, many more. I love the food in this city. I'm always up to try something new, though I tend to avoid factory farmed meat, which makes things tougher.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Human contact
Good whiskey
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Science and skepticism. I like going through my head and ferreting out fallacies, misplaced trust, and mistaken beliefs. I'd rather suffer the discomfort of not knowing than the discomfort of logic that just doesn't quite line up.

What is art? What is the difference between walking and dancing? Painting an art piece and painting a wall? Current theory: it all comes down to intent.

Who was phone?

Also, musical form and analysis. Getting into the nitty-gritty of what makes a great piece great is one of my favorite things to do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a show, or in a show, or sitting at home and watching TV, cuddling someone, or out drinking fancy cocktails. I've been wanting to go to more play parties, too. Sometimes I go blues or tango dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am scared of telephone conversations. It's kind of annoying.
You should message me if
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You're a badass queer poly babe.